Firstly, install Windower and either ApRadar or ffxicaddie (two external map programs). Honestly, don't even think about not doing this.
Windower d/l :
Windower 4 | windower.net
ffxicadde d/l :
Greenshoe Magic
ffxicaddie install guide by the dev :
Windower is so powerful and easy now. It adds a huge range of addons at the click of a button including an in game mini map and video/resolution scalability.
I don't use a joypad. Using keboard don't even try and use the mouse. Main things to remember - press 5 on the numpad to go into first person. Stay in first person. - on numpad opens the menus, use arrow keys to navigate it. You don't lose XP if you die so if you log in and are lost just suicide warp. You can now use devices to warp between almost all zones - crystals (home points) mostly in town zones and survival guides (one in each town and in almost all adventuring zones). Yoiu have to click on them before you can use them as destinations so whenever you see them make sure to get them.
Asura is the only populated server. Spicyran from there has made a number of outstanding guides :
Most important thing in this post :
1 - 99 (and equip to ilvl 119) guide :
Quickstart 1-119 Guide - BG FFXI Wiki
First things to do when you hit 99 :
Fresh 99/RoE Intermediate Quest/119 Gear Guide - BG FFXI Wiki
Only thing I'd add : highest level gear in the game is ilvl 119 but the equipment at this level has tiers also. The 'weakest' 119 gear can be bought in Adoulin for an end game currency called bayld. You will get far more than you need to buy this just getting access to the zones in the latest expansion as given in that first things to do guide (it takes a couple hours to do this part). BUT once you have even the weakest ilvl 119 gear equipped your trusts are then capped at 119
Be aware from the minute you log in of what's called records of Eminence :
Category:Records of Eminence - BG FFXI Wiki
They are an enormous list of in game achievements - they are individually activated from the Quests/Records of Eminence/Objective List menu. They add a lot of XP and currency for doing what you are going to do anyway.
Also be aware that there is constantly a limited time RoE running which changes its objective every four hours. This is on a set schedule which never changes week to week. Schedule is near the top of the following link :
Category:Records of Eminence - BG FFXI Wiki
Note when the 'Gain Exp' event is and try to plan ahead and do it. Its based on when the xp cap was 300 per mob, wheras now you can get up to around 5k per mob.
Trusts are like EQ1 Mercs. You can summon up to five once you do the relevant Rhapsodies of Vana'diel (RoV) quests. You can choose to have healers / tanks / dps / support in whatever numbers you choose.
Rhapsodies of Vana'diel was the latest expansion :
Rhapsodies of Vana'diel Missions
As you work through RoV you get huge permanent bonuses to XP and skill up. Also be aware as you complete these quests more and more core gear becomes available to purchase from the Curio Moogle for cheap prices :
Curio Vendor Moogle
First goal : do your quest to get your mount :
http://ffxiclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/Full_Speed_Ahead!
Personally on logging in I'd aim to get level 50-60 then prioritize getting Trust : Rainemard and as far as you can get in RoV for XP bonuses before getting to 99. Rainemard is a Red Mage whose dps is OP due to his enspells (add elemental damage to his melee strikes) are bugged and do max dmg whatever level he is) casts Haste and Refresh.
How to get Trust : Rainemard :
Bundle of half-inscribed scrolls
Short to medium term goals : Finish RoV progression
WARNING : RoV storyline runs throughout the history of FFXI and involves key characters from each expansion. Various quests in old expansions can stop you progressing in RoV because the characters are erstwhile engaged.
IMPORTANT : As you work through the RoV missions and are forced to go back and get to key stages in older expansions follow each quest descritpion carefully in the FFXIcyclopedia and it will clearly tell you when to not go further in each quest line
eg Aht Urghan progression
AU missions :
Treasures of Aht Urhgan Missions
where to either stop in Aht Urghan or do the rest of the missions before you can continue with RoV :
Aht Urhgan Mission 12: Royal Puppeteer
List of older quests that will block RoV progression :
What should I do if I can’t progress in Rhapsodies of Vana’diel?
Medium to long term goals : best DPS available : Iroha II (reward for completing RoV), best tank available : August or Ark Angel EV
I say currently available because at various times of the year the monthly login campaign items include some fo the more powerful trusts eg Amchuchu the tank and Shantotto II the best caster trust.
Category:Trust - BG FFXI Wiki
Random links/advice :
Good XP spots by level :
Fantastic EXPs and Where to Find Them - BG FFXI Wiki
Hierarchy of todays jobs :
The hierarchy of jobs: today's FFXI • r/ffxi
Best forums (FFXIAH) :
Forum - FFXIAH.com
The monthly log on campaign :
Repeat Login Campaign - BG FFXI Wiki
Level cap quests (every 5 levels from 50) :
Limit Break
Speed run guide to lvl 99 from scratch (14 hours) :
Planning speedrun to level 99 • r/ffxi
1-99 XP/hr testing :
1-99 XP/Hr testing results • r/ffxi
The level cap quests where you have to fight are trivial now - with sufficient (minimal) progress in RoV you can use your Trust NPCs.
Unity Concord - makes a choice of one of the best available Trusts available to you - needs to be re enabled every three weeks by earning enough points (easyily done just by playing) Recommend joining Apururu (so far above regular healers) :
Unity Concord
In Windower enable enternity and FastCS. They makes cut scenes go much faster. Be ware there are two quests in game that you will need to do without enternity enabled : one is the Adoulin quest when you are getting the key for Kamir Drifts and the other is a random quest, getting the 'Paintbursh of Souls' key if you ever do this in the old zone Temple of Uggalepih. One locks up and the second you can't pause before pressing the enter key.
You get an Eschad ring when you log in - it adds 150% XP max 30,000 and has limitless charges with a two hour re use timer.
Buy ilvl 119 gear for bayld from :
Vesca and
Craggy Bluff
You want a real long term, epic, takes months and months pita, do fuzzy stuff like Gardening goal - work towards getting Ygnas, the best permanent Trust available in the game and a healer on par with Apururu :
Trust: Ygnas
Random thing to know #1 - Scholar (SCH) is a newer job which is a caster that can do skill chains on their own using spells (job ability Immanence turns regular spells into "Weapon SKill' equivalents for skill chains). This allows casters to do Manabursts for huge damage on demand as the SCH sets them up, melees not required for end game DPS. (Melee has had significant boosts though and either approaches are viable).
Random things to know #2 - Geomancer >>>>>>>>> Bard for buffing/debuffing and can Manaburst etc