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  1. Omi43221

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    So..things are going well?
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    Must Have Software

    I meant hard drive. I found website forensicwiki.org with list of many tools, including encase. Thanks
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    Must Have Software

    Hi, Anyone want to suggest data recovery software?
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    Suicide Squad (2016)

    Just came back from the movie. It's a solid 7/10. Anyone who says this movie is as bad as BvS doesn't know what they are talking about. Two-thirds of the BvS movie is unwatchable tripe. This movie is watchable from beginning to end. Granted there are some flow problems and the bad guy isn't...
  5. Omi43221

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    "So you don't care enough to have an opinion about the color of tissue boxes..you @#$& ..$#@-...and take a $#@& up your #@$&."
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Just a suggestion that my ex and I use to do , create a 3 hour block of time on Saturday or Sunday that is set aside for taking care of the home and involve the kids. Create a check list for everyone kids included and then make sure the kids are complimented on taking care of their house/stuff...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    a_skeleton_03's account hacked? ( Only plausible explanation)
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    My exec and I went through 9 counselors before we felt we found one that knew what she/he was doing. Honestly to be a good counselor you have to be smart. If you start babbling this 'no shit Sherlock' cliche crap I don't see how that helps. The one we did get that was good. I wouldn't say was...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I feel like I need to defend Khane here. He just seems to have a really low tolerance for bullshit and doesn?t ever want to walk on eggshells about anything in his personal relationship. I don?t think wanting to be with a woman that isn?t insecure is too much to ask for. If you want a hug, ask...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Go back to school and relearn math and reading comprehension. He makes ~65k and his ex makes between 20 to 30k. He doesn't feed his kids ramen. He helps his wife out wtith quasi child support so that they have a good experience at the ex's.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Unfortunately the answer is yes. It's possible, If you read any men's divorce forums you hear about all kinds of shenanigans and unbelievable rulings. The one over arching theme you get from it is the lawyers 'win'. They get their money. You don't hear by and large the courts are fair and...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    That's not what he said he's going to do. He said he will eventually refinance the house through his name once he has the money. Once that is finished he will petition the court to go through them for child support even though the current decree says he doesn't have to pay anything. If at any...
  13. Omi43221

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Oh, so you know the family lawyer that discusses all your options with you before getting a retainer. If you know of such a lawyer feel free to PM me and Oonoes the information.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    So everyone demanding he go to a lawyer just be aware. that the end result of that could be Oonoes out another 20k in legal fees on top of the court deciding what the hell you should still pay your ex 10k in back child support. Even though he did go to a lawyer.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    By your own admission family lawyers are a steaming pile of douche bags. Can you atleast admit that telling him to go see one also entails it's own problems and risks. @Cad
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I have to say, and probably a surprise to no one, I kinda agree with Oonoes. Lawyers aren't magical. Hiring one will not instantly close out his risk. Oonoes should have went through the court for child support. He knows that now. What exact change in the divorce decree do you think the lawyer...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    One suggestion, some women actually do have what's called a shallow vagina. It"s possible there is some discomfort for her and she actually doesn't bother to stay in place because of it. That's a pretty damm awkward conversation but perhaps you're a might to big for her and you just need to...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I had originally written a big these are my options post that got eaten. Would I rather close out my risk, yes. At this point Im going to stick with my plan. I'll know by the end of the year. If things don't change I'll have to pick a lawyer. One other thing to add. I have visited with...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Honestly I couldn't find anything there that was close to what Im making now. Moving gave me the ability to pay the debt, to hopefully save some money in the future to help with their education. I hate what happened but I don't think it was a mistake. I could be there in this same position and...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I have heard the same thing it's actually one of the reasons I have avoided going into court. A bad day in court and some judge could decide I owe back child support till the start of the divorce. If I lawyer up she will and I throw the dice. I know the odds are heavily in my favor but that...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I can appreciate that. Honestly if I was on the other side reading this story I would think the same thing as well. All I can say is that I was a very involved father. I was my older sons soccer couch and den leader for cub scouts. My younger son I took to heart strings and baby story time. I...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    We just completed a short sale last year. The remaining debt I have is in credit cards that are in my name and not hers. So about the house. If I look back and try to figure out where I went wrong that is one key spot. My wife pregnant with my 2nd child wanted to live in a better house a...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    That is a big part of the rub. I pay her what I have approximated what the state would require me to pay her. My goal is to complete paying off the debt by the end of the year and then at that point offer to pay more for specific child expenses with conditions of more visitation and...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Oh I'm sure she is pissing in their ear. She calls me a loser right in front of them. She is of the opinion that since I am not working two jobs that I am addicted to gaming and porn. I don't blame the kids at all. They are just protecting their mother. Honestly I don't even blame my exwife...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I suppose there aren't many questions in there. Was it reasonable for me to move away to take a higher paying job? How much child support is a reasonable amount I should be paying her? Am I being short sited for not trying to pull this into the court system?
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Longtime listner first time caller. Looks like others are sharing and I need some feed back if I am being reasonable. My sons told me that they don't want to talk to me anymore. Never been punched so hard by life. Where to begin. I have been divorced for 5 years now. I moved away from...
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    The Free Will Thread

    First point, the idea we have free will is just so obviously false in our day to day experience I don't even understand how it can have this much debate. When we say free will we are claiming our will is free of influence. Any guy who has lived with a woman for any length of time and thinks our...
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    Parent Thread

    Already posted