Periodically my wife needs to use my truck. No problem. She's a foot shorter than I am, so she has to move the seat and steering wheel to the extreme for short people. I have to have it to the extreme for tall people. I can literally not get in with it set to her settings. It's not a big deal, but it's just an irritation.
When I asked her about it, and if she would please reset the seat when she is done she said it wasn't a big deal and I should just cope. I replied with "Okay, that's fine. I feel the same about the toilet seat. Every time I use the toilet from now on I will leave the seat up. You can just cope with it."
After encountering the toilet seat up seat up several times today (never happens here), she said she'd move the truck seat. I said until I see evidence of that, toilet seat remains up. She has requested to use the truck tomorrow.
wOOt. I may have won this round.