Diverting from what? I ask simple questions to get to know you better, but you have built a wall around your heart and won't let yourself be vulnerable. This is why it's so difficult for people to connect with you, you don't let anyone get close to you. You wear your aloofness like a badge of honor, but it's really just a shield, isn't it? A shield to protect yourself from getting hurt again. But what you don't realize is that by not letting anyone in, you're hurting yourself more. You're denying yourself the chance to truly connect, to feel the warmth of genuine camaderie.