I'm already that, lol. I don't give a fuck about gender identity, I don't need others to care about that either. I just care about doing shit that advances my hobbies, especially the one that lead to me having a professional career and taught me most of my life skills for success (ie; EQ and its emulator/preservation communities), and also protect the people I care about close to me. That's always kind of been the goal here.Just be a cool dude who likes to dress as a woman.
The forum focuses on that because it's something they dislike in someone they heard of that posts here. I can't blame people for disliking a personality trait that they associate with mental illness. It's not my place to change their mind through words, but instead through actions. If I can change games like EQ for the better, or preseve large swaths of its history, or educate someone about programming, that's the kind of shit I'd like to do.
You can hate trannies and still have tranny friends, as long as the 'tranny' isn't a total piece of shit about you having an opinion.