I think that maybe says something you thought it was a personal attack. The legion of TLP re-rollers I have interacted with, serially, on server after server is huge in number. I have absolutely zero issue with serial TLP rerolling, but I do admit to getting annoyed at the serial rerollers who literally say again and again "this is my server" then flame out at the same place. I feel like the more honest ones have just taken to openly admitting "yeah, I'm here until XXX then I'm out." That's certainly how I approached Vaniki for example, I left zero illusions about how long term my interest is.
TBH I generally do take a dim view of people who are obsessed with server population. If you aren't RMTing, then if you're any kind of serious player as long as there's still an active guild, you can get anything in the game you want, and do anything you want. The people who for some reason seem to think the only way to properly play eq is if there's a lot of randos on the server (that they almost never interact with ever), befuddle me. As a guild leader I certainly have server population concerns as it relates to recruitment, but on the flipside we made it to live on a server that had been dead for 1.5 years or so, so the capacity a server has to get to before it becomes nonviable is pretty damn small.
I was kidding about it being a personal attack. Though it did describe me to an extent.
People who serial reroll and leave at the same time every server (PoP usually) annoy me too. All the best parts of the game are after that IMO, though I have a soft spot for classic/kunark too.
Recruitment is my main concern when it comes to server population, and the reason I care about it. OGC has had basically no one to recruit for about a year now. The last 3 other guilds on Phinny were Echoes of Elysium (collapsed), Resolute (collapsed), and Rosengard (left for another server).
Of course, as the population dried up, the family guilds lost their recruitment pools, and then as those guilds folded, the higher-tier guilds lost their recruiting pools, and as those guilds folded, the top guild lost its recruiting pool.
So once all those guilds were gone and OGC assimilated who it could, that was basically it for recruits. At that point it was just the one remaining guild versus time and attrition.
The fact that we're still doing current content with 45-person raids (more like 35 if you factor out boxes) and ahead of anyone on the servers we're merging into is a testament to how everyone here works their ass off. However we'd be having a much easier time on a server with a healthy pop, and if this upcoming merger weren't a thing, it's safe to say OGC would cross a threshold at some point where attrition prevented any further raiding of current targets. At that point the server would dry up the rest of the way, regardless of Dima's efforts to keep things afloat.
I suppose at that point one can always just...move to another server, but most of us stuck around because we like this one. Regardless, this stuff is why I mull over server population sizes. But you're right, chances are Vaniki will be viable for a while, probably well beyond the time I'm on there.