More of a Jimmy rustle. But I hate at 37 I moved to the country, have a mini farm, best shape I've been in a while, but my herniated disc I had a discectomy on in 17 is back 26th a vengeance.
Can barely get up from sitting in certain chairs. wake up very painful with sciatic leg/butt cheek pain. Hit the point of some taser like painfull shocks up my hole back when bending or twisting just right, often when flexing my back as I sit into a chair or get up from a crouch.
last dr said I'd get worse someday and probably need a fusion. Think I'm there but had hoped for it to be in my 40s
I've gone through this before. What do you mean by "had a discectomy on in 17 is back 26th"? You had a discectomy in 2017? What's 26?
Which level is it on, lumbar/thoracic/cervical? I'm guessing lumbar if sitting in chairs is an issue with sciatica.
Fusion is very likely going to be needed, yeah. Unfortunately fusion isn't the cure-all doctors present it as either. I had L4/L5 herniate and L5/S1 herniate to the point of outright leaking (I landed on that area a bunch). Got a discectomy on the lowest one and it actually helped...for about a year and a half, until one day when I twisted wrong while diving through the air (don't ask) and that was that. Then they decided to do fusion on two levels because the one above it had also gotten worse as well. There was another option, a sort of "imitation disc" that they can replace your disc with, and a lot of people find that vastly preferable to fusion, but they're more experimental and they tend to go bad after five years.
I can't testify as to how effective that is but I will say they've likely gotten better over time. Fusion is the same as it ever was and it actually kind of sucks, so don't believe doctors if they give you flowery projections. Just hope for the best and don't expect it to fix everything. The stiffness is very noticeable and supposedly it can contribute to sexual dysfunction, though if it does it's sporadic. At least you only have to do a one-level fusion instead of two, from the sound of it.
Also, don't spend long hours sitting in chairs in the first few months after a fusion. Walking a lot is ideal. Sitting a lot will just cause a lot of pain and might even mess with it, I don't know. I'd go from laying down to walking, but I didn't walk as much as I should have and actually got kind of weak over the 9 month recovery. Oh yeah, and most importantly, try not to develop a painkiller addiction. They'll pour those on you during fusion recovery (or at least they did 15 years ago). You really only "need" them for the first two weeks or so, and even that's long enough to develop a dependency. There are a lot of risks of turning into (more of) an asshole during this recovery process, between not being able to do much, possibly being on pills, possibly having to withdraw from pills, and so on. You can end up not "yourself" and driving off the nearest woman (or at least making her miserable) without even realizing it.
I'm sure there's a better way to do all of this than a fusion, fusion sucks all around. Yoga gurus and expert chiropractors might be able to get rid of a lot of the symptoms but it'll take time, cooperation and a lot of money, while fusion is more of a "just get it done" situation. Be prepared to take like 3 weeks off of work though and like I said you want to be really careful for about 9 months, no twisting.