My brother designed his own house and even though he had an architect draw it up, there are things that turned out just weird. For example the downstairs bedrooms are huge, which seems nice, but WTF are you going to do in there? They have a recliner next to the bed like you're going to hang out in there reading or something, but that's what the living room is for. It's a waste of space and it just feels weird in there, even with a king sized bed. His bathrooms are laid out awkwardly too. One of them has the shower and vanity on one side and just the toilet on the other and this huge empty space. It's not hurting anything, but you just go in there and think "what's going on over there?". I don't think his house sucks or anything, but there are several oddities that probably wouldn't have happened if a professional did the design. It's just hard to visualize what a space is going to be like in the planning stage.
Friend in high school his dad designed their house and did the plans for it. They had to redo all kinds of stuff. "Looked good on paper", lot of doors were in odd places and opened the wrong way so they would jam into another door. They finally got it fixed but jeeze they spent 10x more fixing the shit than they would have if they paid someone to come up with the plans.My brother designed his own house and even though he had an architect draw it up, there are things that turned out just weird. For example the downstairs bedrooms are huge, which seems nice, but WTF are you going to do in there? They have a recliner next to the bed like you're going to hang out in there reading or something, but that's what the living room is for. It's a waste of space and it just feels weird in there, even with a king sized bed. His bathrooms are laid out awkwardly too. One of them has the shower and vanity on one side and just the toilet on the other and this huge empty space. It's not hurting anything, but you just go in there and think "what's going on over there?". I don't think his house sucks or anything, but there are several oddities that probably wouldn't have happened if a professional did the design. It's just hard to visualize what a space is going to be like in the planning stage.
Yeah I never understood the love for huge ass bedrooms. Who the hell hangs out there? Yeah there are days where you just want to lay around and maybe watch some tube when youre not feeling great or whatever, but those days are rare. Bathrooms same thing, maybe chicks hang out there for a while, but my wife has an extra bedroom for that shit when my kid moved downstairs to basement, lol. Waht do we do in there? 10 min shower? Maybe 15 min shit? Who hangs out in bathrooms?My brother designed his own house and even though he had an architect draw it up, there are things that turned out just weird. For example the downstairs bedrooms are huge, which seems nice, but WTF are you going to do in there? They have a recliner next to the bed like you're going to hang out in there reading or something, but that's what the living room is for. It's a waste of space and it just feels weird in there, even with a king sized bed. His bathrooms are laid out awkwardly too. One of them has the shower and vanity on one side and just the toilet on the other and this huge empty space. It's not hurting anything, but you just go in there and think "what's going on over there?". I don't think his house sucks or anything, but there are several oddities that probably wouldn't have happened if a professional did the design. It's just hard to visualize what a space is going to be like in the planning stage.
My GF spends a huge amount of time in her bedroom. She's either in there or in the living room. Her bedroom is massive. No kids though.Yeah I never understood the love for huge ass bedrooms. Who the hell hangs out there? Yeah there are days where you just want to lay around and maybe watch some tube when youre not feeling great or whatever, but those days are rare. Bathrooms same thing, maybe chicks hang out there for a while, but my wife has an extra bedroom for that shit when my kid moved downstairs to basement, lol. Waht do we do in there? 10 min shower? Maybe 15 min shit? Who hangs out in bathrooms?
My parents bought a huge ass mcmansion, probably worth close to 1/2 million now with a huge ass bathroom, jet tub, walk in shower, lol. No one uses that shit other than shower. I think they used that huge ass tub like 3-4 times in the 20 yrs they were there.
IMO its all about the kitchen, living spaces, and maybe the dining room if youre into that type of family shit. Thats where 95% of the waking living happens.
Does she cook?My GF spends a huge amount of time in her bedroom. She's either in there or in the living room. Her bedroom is massive. No kids though.
I'm actually thinking about selling my house and banking the money and renting for a year or two until my daughter finishes school. The eviction moratorium is going to end and I see a flood of houses hitting the market down the road. Prices here on Long Island in commute distance to NYC are insane and I can make $$$.
Yeah I am doing the math on it.Better look at that rental market. My wife and I are looking and $150k homes are trying to rent at $450k mortgage prices.
Yeah I am doing the math on it.
yea, youtube has made me swear off vaulted ceilingsYou’re supposed to let her out and walk her every once in a while, dude.
Moving from my old house which had 20’+ open ceiling in the living room, I swore I’d never go back to that style of space. As previously mentioned it is terrible to cool (not “as” much concerned with heating but yeah, also bad) and while it looks nice it is one or two rooms worth of open space.
However, looking at houses everything felt small without it so I caved in a bought another one. Just gotta balance going with my gut vs my head and be okay with the trade offs I have consciously made. And not complain too much about it later.
Nice discussion to read though. Made me think about a few things while going back for the inspection this morning. Trying to get a list together of everything to double check.
My location is a little different than most. Long Island is its own beast.Let me know what you come up with. I’m in the same situation.