I'm thinking about starting a guild (kinship I think they call it in this game) just to have people to do dungeons with on occasion.
I don't want to join an existing kinship because honestly, I don't want to have to deal with anybody telling me what I can and can't do in a game.
First off, as you all know, I stream my game sessions on Twitch, so I don't need anyone telling me I can't do that, or "I know we said you can do that, but we need you to not do it right now" kind of thing. It's my stream, and my choices. Some might find that to sound selfish or self centered, but my Twitch stream is my side gig (that has yet to ever pay me anything lol), and as such, business is business. You don't let others run your business... even if you never make a dime off of it LOL >.< it's still YOUR business, and you should control it.
Secondly, as much as I try to play the game every day in the evenings, there are days that real life demands my attention. I'm over the "we need you here" mentality I put up with for too many years in EverQuest. I want to play games when I want to, how I want to, and for how ever long/short I want. If I decide that I want to roll a new character one night and goof around on something other than what my main character was involved in at the moment, then I will do that, and I don't need anybody giving me grief for not being there for their dungeon/raid/whatever.
So, yeah. I'm planning on making a guild in Lord of The Rings Online.
There will be no rules because we're all grown adults, and we should be able to be reasonably accepting of one another's quirks. People are going to have issues, throw fits, rant about shit, and generally have bad days from time to time... myself included of course. I don't want any rules getting in the way of people being able to overlook someone's bad day. If you're being a dumbass, just take some time away from the guild chat or game. You'll get over it and be yourself in a day or so. No reason for online friends to condemn you to purgatory for life just because you woke up on the wrong side of the bed one day.
Will we raid? Fuck if I know. If we ever have enough people at the right levels, with the necessary classes, and people want to attempt some raids, sure. Why the fuck not? Does that mean we will try to beat everything in the game, have regularly scheduled raid nights, and have some sort of DKP system? Hell fuck no..! I'm done with that shit.
Will we run dungeons together? I'd like to do that. There are a lot of instances (dungeons) I have not seen in the game purely because the instance finder (aka dungeon finder of other games) is a giant piece of dog shit that is more complicated than filing your taxes every year. Seriously, it's shit. I have no idea how any game designer thought that was a good system. The vast majority of the time when I have tried to use it, I end up joining an instance that someone else has marked in the instance finder for a particular dungeon, and when I send them a tell about it, they are like, "I'm not in that dungeon. I'm in xyz dungeon." I rarely ever find someone actually doing the dungeon they have marked as wanting to do in the instance finder. It's so fucked up. Long story short, this is why I want to put a kinship together. I want to do group dungeons every so often, and I need friends in game to do that.
So.... If you made it through all that crap, and you have any interest in playing LoTRO with friends, hit me up.
I'm not rich in game by any means, but I have all crafters up to/near master rank, so I can hook you up with gear if you want to roll new characters on my server.
Oh... almost forgot. Gladden server.