Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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Guest, it's time once again for the massively important and exciting FoH Asshat Tournament!
Go here and give us your nominations!Who's been the biggest Asshat in the last year? Give us your worst ones!
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Trump's Staff
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I stopped caring to be honest.
Her sex drive has gone down a lot, while mine remains, so I just jerk off next to her.
The arguments are now "Pick up your cum rags before the kids get into the room!!!"
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Cad
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At it's core, I think submissive just means, they let you run the show. You decide when to start/stop/finish, change positions, put her on top, doggy/etc. She more or less just lets it happen; she's an active participant (this does not imply a pillow princess or dead fish) but doesn't make decisions about what happens. The opposite of that is obviously dominant, which is the person who decides what happens.
Submissive to me doesn't imply any sort of kink other than they don't necessarily want to be in control when it comes to sex; they enjoy having sex more or less performed on them.
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Trump's Staff
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you get used to it, the bed is better than the bathroom. I never understood people beating it on the shower.
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LachiusTZ
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Cad
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You disagreeing with me ups the chances of me being right by about 90%... thanks bro
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Nester
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you don’t understand unlimited access to lube and clean up material in a self contained space? Not to mention the fact that you are already naked?
seriously, your wife won’t rollover and let you stick it in? Harsh and unfortunate.
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You've obviously missed all my posts in this thread so far.
Arguing with me about this is like me trying to argue with you about legal stuff. Except it's not my job, just something I've been immersed in for the last year - hence flying abroad every six weeks for fetish parties, being friends with multiple pro Dominatrixes, filming stuff with them for their Only fans etc
But by all means, keep digging a bigger hole for yourself
Big Phoenix
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Trump's Staff
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To be fair Cad is an expert and a figure of authority in one, maybe two aspect of the law only.
We may just think you are not an expert on that particularly kind of relationship. Maybe we think you are a catcher, not a pitcher, and we need a pitchers opinion on this.
We may just think you are not an expert on that particularly kind of relationship. Maybe we think you are a catcher, not a pitcher, and we need a pitchers opinion on this.
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Kiroy
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Nah, the idea that being submissive means just lying there is probably one of the most wrong posts ever made on this board. It misses the point spectacularly
The fact that he is doubling down and trying to argue with a guy that has been pretty open about being involved in that scene is just further proof that he's a moron
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Big Phoenix
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Its a simple dynamic; one commands/leads the other obeys/follows. Whether you take it all the way to 24/7 power play where your "sub" must always respond with yes sir and ask you for permission to do the most basic tasks doesnt matter.
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As a laymans definition that isn't bad
This was worst part of his post "Submissive to me doesn't imply any sort of kink other than they don't necessarily want to be in control when it comes to sex; they enjoy having sex more or less performed on them"
Because it reduces what is actually a mindset to just how someone acts in bed. The submissive (and Dominant) gets off on the power exchange, not just on what is done to them when they're in bed.
Anyway, going to bed and Cad's on ignore so no need to go full autist. Not unless you want to see the photos from my phone of people tied to St Andrews Crosses with puddles of blood underneath their ass, me having my cock milked in a penis pump by multiple Dommes etc