I'm about to finally finish this game of PoP. I took it really slowly, partially because it took forever for war to break out and the only reason it did was that I finally started one. The king initially kept giving me all the fiefs I requested so by the time he denied me one, my faction was too powerful to rebel against; all of my friends had plenty of fiefs and were happy to come beat my ass for being rebel scum.
Up to about 3500 renown now and I'm tearing shit up as the Marshal, doing quick mode on all of the fights.
Cool mod but I didn't really understand knighthood orders and some other stuff until late in the game. If I play again, I'll probably try going King early.