hey rhonda have spoken to your dad lately?
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He has been sick lately and not feeling well. His eyesight is going, and left arm still needs therapy. It would be nice if you guys would make ammends. Maybe call him. Wait he doesnt have a phone. He saw where he was paying for a phone every month. I know you are handing his finances, but he talked to an attorney the other day about getting somethings changed. He really wants to go home i tried to tell him this nursery home is the best thing for him. He is really sad.
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Normally i don't give a fuck but we have a common link.
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I tried to get some of his bills stopped Found out I can't. If I visit he gets mad I can't let him live in that house Only plumbing is in the basement and not space for a proper room for him. He wants his house keys A nurse aid up there to come take care of him. I work lots of overtime and have my own issues...not a proper care giver that he needs. Sad thing is he's ran everyone off that cared about him. I'm the last one. I don't want to go up there and argue with him...I'm a female so he expects me to cave into what he wants. I don't know what to do.
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I bought him a phone, but no one will come with me to give it to him. Why should I bring it for him to call and threaten me. Maybe you should mind your own business
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I heard the stories. There are two sides to the stories.
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I think you should make up after all its xmas.
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I will you know he has spoken to a lawyer about the POA changed because he is very competent. I agree with him you tried to screw him out but i also know you writing checks out of his account and handling his business affairs for him.
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I dont like to see elderly people abused.
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One more thing dont tell me what i can do and cant do. I can show real fast how i go from 0 to i dont give a fuck.
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He told me why you at odds with one another.
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Yes i know you have kept him down and out. Part it from medicaid. I realize it but he has been getting letters from them about taking his current house and car.
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12/23/23, 12:32 AM
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Well, there are state agencies and attorneys involved in this kind of stuff daily. I hope you kept good records and receipts. If you aren't going to bring him a phone, attend to his daily needs, j can almost guarantee the phone gets shut off and other people will get involved. No one like to see elderly people get taken advantage age of. Last warning. I don't give a fuck nor does he.
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12/23/23, 5:07 AM
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12/23/23, 6:51 PM
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I read your responses. I will agree he needs full time care. Yes I understand its not safe for him to go home. He is pretty strong guy on right side. He really needs therapy to strenght his left side. He has nothing-no socks and money. I gave a couple pairs of socks myself. Yes i also understand you dont have time with your job. I also know you been taking care of his bills. I am happy you are doing it for him. Furthermore they are trying to take his house and the land with it. I also know how vauble the land is when they widen 70. You could mail the phone to him. I know what you are going thru. I also see a lot of his bitterness and being here. I know really deep down you love him and want see him hurt. I dont know what to tell you honestly.
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Don't want to see him hurt.
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After all its Xmas. Families are supposed to be together. So, what did you do with the 65k from the sale of that inherited land.
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I know why you could not to put in the bank because of Medicaid. Personally, i would be pissed off too if my family left me to fin for myself. He was throwing up blood the other day. He has gotten to the point he can't use the toilet with a crane. He has recently talked to an attorney in the area.
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He needs glasses and a miracle ear for both ears now.
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I know he can be stubborn. But you need to work out your differences.
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12/24/23, 12:56 AM
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The one he said to me, and attorney is that his own children did this to him. He gave the attorney all the information he needed to look up. What a memory. I know the people will love. You know what you did. Now make it right.
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After knowing how life work please dont come off being innocent and poor defenseless female because you arent. You know what you did to him. The power of attorney can be chnged at any time which is not an issue. However, get back the money back might ne a problem?