So more about my sister. This is mostly gonna be me venting a bit, not really asking for advice.
As I said before, we started watching her daughter on Saturday's because her boyfriend's mother "wasn't very nice." Whatever, just doing it right.
Then she sends my brother and I texts asking if something were to happen her and her boyfriend could we support her with rent and bills. First of all, no I can't. Single income family. Second of all, my father lives alone and is retired - he's already told her they can both live there free of charge. The reason she doesn't want to do this is so foolish, "I couldn't get high as often at his house." I mean.. god forbid the man doesn't want weed smoke in his house. She's asked for financial help until she can start stripping to make money - no joke. That's her life plan right now. It's all so messed up.
So, I cannot support her whatsoever outside of providing food or something. Then she drops this bombshell that the dude is verbally abusive and she has to hide the daughter when he goes on tirades. And I've always seen that he was sort of a dick to her, but she's never said anything so I assumed he was trying to act cool in front of us or something. So now I even wonder if that's the full story, that the abuse is just verbal...
Keep in mind, she got pregnant with this dude within a few weeks of dating him. And she's been pregnant 4-5 times before (she has one kid.. so..). Kind of just want to buy her a pack of condoms and say 'there's your support'
End rant