No, it is about calling him out for being full of shit and a coward. If I have no concern of posting my RL fat ass self out there in what is (for my money) the most sophisticated community of abusive trolls on the internet, then someone who refers to himself as "apha" should have zero issue. I am underscoring that he is an insecure coward. He is so insecure that he cannot even just say that he can't handle posting his picture. Honor has very little to do with it, aside from me wanting to demonstrate that my online persona and RL are one in the same. And when you realize that he is too insecure and self conscious to do what I and ZZy (or even Antarius) have done AND you realize that he is so tenuous in his act that he got himself painted into a corner on the "mom is a used up whore" issue, one has to conclude that deep down not even he buys his shallow woman hating bullshit. At that point, you realize that it is just another religion that he has jumped on and (like with most religions) he is jumping on the parts that appeal to him ("I am special", "Women are whores", "Must Get Dick Wet") and disregarding the parts he doesn't like ("except my Mom is not a whore because reasons") or challenge his "faith" ("You are not happy, you are a cuckolded fat man married to a used up whore").
In short, he is a fraud and a coward. The way you deal with frauds and cowards is to demonstrate strength of will and character, while shining a bright light on their hypocritical bullshit. They will dodge ("Only my mom is not a whore"), they will deny ("You do not understand the way of the RP because only I am enlightened"), they will deflect (cue neckbeard pictures posted when we were relentless about his cowardice), and they will insult ("Your wife is clearly a used up whore"). But, ultimately, they will hide because the alternative is to acknowledge how full of shit they are and face things about themselves they lack the strength of character to accept or cope with. A coward does not seek to better themselves or accept themselves. A coward seeks to blame others, prop themselves up, and prey on the weak.
I have many flaws as a human being, but cowardice and lying are not among them. I really hate it in others when I see it. I am fine with people having different views or interests. I am even fine with people hating me. Part of not being a coward is accepting that you do not need to make everyone like you. Seeing Dumar spew this hateful shit, when we all know he is the washed up whore preying on hippie girls at the starbucks who are likely half his age, is not even enough to piss me off. It is his inability to admit his own insecurity, which he clearly feels, and that what he is doing amounts to both common sense and shooting proverbial fish in a barrel. No one who is not an insecure antisocial Beavis-man is particularly impressed.
But really the line with me was crossed when these shitheads suggested that it was socially acceptable to call men's wives used up whores without fear of retribution. So I guess honor was the breaking point, but the shit pile was a mile high before that happened.
