Not to be rude, but real, thats the whole point of these pedometers, to shame u into seeing you only walked 789 steps in one day? Then when u look at a whole week and it doesnt even add up to the 10000 steps that normal healthy ppl should be taking in one day, you just end up walking for 30mins around the block. once you're properly ashamed for a week, then you can just get that 1 week of shame over with and start walking and then a month later tell your wife how it feels then start walking with her. fuck, do you have parks where you're at? it's getting to "walking" temp now, i bet there are tons of trails where you live, and there are tons of fitbit users on those trails as well. seriously, at least register at fitbit dot com, it's free and you can see all the ppl in your area if you don't have fitbit RL friends.