Not really, but we can just agree to disagree, your 1099's mean literally nothing, as thats just the broker flagging any possible wash sale if multiple purchases have been made prior to selling, and your 1099's don't show whether you still had a position in that issue or not. Further, all the articles I can find which address the issue agree with my interpretation, and furthermore, even if we assume the wash sale rule did apply to a buy X, buy more X, sell all X scenario, it would make LITERALLY NO DIFFERENCE because the loss on the original purchase would be added to the cost of the second purchase which was also sold on the same day, which means your loss deduction would be exactly the same. If you're saying that your broker would flag that as a wash sale and you'd file the 8849 as if it were a wash sale just because your 1099 flagged it as such, thats fine. Me, I'd correct the 8849 and correctly report the cost basis and make it not a wash sale, since it isn't, and I'd be comfortable arguing why to the auditor.
But hey, you do what you want with this super complex issue bro. I hope you understand it more clearly than you're explaining it.