Yeah, just like there is no universal grid and all objects are relative to other objects (there is no universal {0,0,0}) there is no universal now.
As a concept at interstellar distances it's not entirely meaningful. That follows from the observation that the transfer of information is not instantaneous.
We can take a telescope and peer into the furthest reaches of space possible for us to do that. What we see are mis shapen galaxies, we've decided that they're young galaxies, we understand this to be a historical record. All of that is consistent with the idea of the speed of light.
Now if that's what it is, how can that exist contemporaneously with us, the descendants of that process looking back into our own record? If we picked one mis shapen blob and pointed a space ship at it and traveled at the speed of light to it, would we ever get there? Ignore the expansion of space, we can account for that in our speed too with this magic. And what about the stuff past that?
The only possible way that it can exist is to discard this notion of the eternal, present, "now". And if it doesn't exist... well, how the fuck can we see it? It does exist in some manner.