Hey, if cardio is your thing then rock out as much cardio as you want. But cardio is not required to lose weight, and I dare say not more effective than lifting weights and being generally active.
I'm gonna guess that someone who is looking to lose a lot of weight is someone who also hates cardio (or they wouldn't be so dramatically overweight). In general I think "more cardio" is bad advice, not only because it implies that you must "punish" yourself to lose weight, but because you can lose weight just as effectively by eating less.
I wouldn't consider 5'7'' and 135 lbs dramatically overweight.
You all have seen pictures of me. I'm not an itty bitty person or anything, but I'm just that plus 10 lbs right now.
I actually like cardio, because I read manuscripts on the elliptical. Get work done + exercise = two birds with one stone. As far as counting calories, I definitely could be off some days, not saying that I'm always 100% accurate because after like 6+ months of using myfitnesspal, I stopped tracking. I kinda know the calorie amount of everything I eat. I do weigh things tho, it isn't like I'm eyeballing. Restaurants are where it gets tough.
My days usually consist of no breakfast, salad for lunch (one those prepackaged ones from the grocery store that claim to be 210-290 calories) though I don't use all the dressing, cheese stick for a snack if I have one at all or berries, and whatever I make for dinner (which I weigh). If I'm cooking shitty food for the kids, then I just eat a quest bar (it's what TJ's carries and has almost no sugar). I've cut out sugar as much as possible, - though I realize things like salad dressing have it so it's not entirely gone - and don't eat breads.
I do typically have a crap day on the weekend, where I know I'm hitting about 1600 calories (and it is a bad 1600 because we'll have pizza, chinese, or something like that - tho I'm still tracking as accurately as I can) and I only workout 6 days a week.
And honestly I'm not hungry like ever, which I thought meant I was eating too much. But even on days where I run out of time to much of anything at all besides a protein bar, I'm not feeling hungry.
Regardless, I can do better which is essentially what ya'll are saying. Lift more, track better. Avoid the family pizza days and eat cleaner.
Curious if anyone has experience on the hormonal side - like is that something that can cause a plateau that I just have to work harder to break through?