Thanks. I think most of it is going to disappear when I plane it down. The graphic artist at work actually helped me with that and this is the first one. She thought the same thing when she saw it.
You guys that have been making stuff for awhile - how do you deal with family and friends asking for stuff? I have about 15 people right now asking if I can make one for them and I keep thinking "I want to actually make these things and sell them to pay for better toys. I can't do 20 fucking freebies or heavy discounts a year".
I also don't want to charge friends and family what it would actually cost when everything gets factored it.
Anyone have a tried and true, gentle way to say that?
Family, if they’re close I have done things for. Like my Mom and Dad close. My fiancé which is basically going in our house and she knows is test stuff for me to learn.
Friends I did that hanging Murphy bar for and will never do anything else for a friend again, very likely. To me it is just like any other sort of business dealing and I really just am not comfortable mixing business and friendship. My time and value are worth something so doing it for free or for material cost is taking from myself. And they’re never going to value the freebie you’ve given them for not charging for your time, experience, tools, frustration, hard work, and everything else. They just can’t it isn’t anything personal against my friends. It isn’t worth it in my opinion.
It is a hobby / small business but my time isn’t free and I’m not running a charity. Honesty is the best policy and I’d say if you aren’t 1,000% comfortable just decline to do it but offer to look for a suitable replacement from Etsy or something.
There are always exceptions but that is my general rule and thinking about it.
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