Shonuff
Mr. Poopybutthole
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I"ve seen so many nightmares with family owned businesses. 90% of them get along dysfunctionally. If they aren"t taking out all of the cash they can legally, they are sneaking in the cash register stealing. Or they are banging the employees and risking a huge lawsuit. Or they aren"t pulling their weight, only showing up to get a paycheck and letting the other family members do all the work. Or they get in a power trip and reverse each other"s orders to employees when the original decision was the right one to make, just to spite the other family members (even if it means losing profits). My favorite was my friend who owned a dealership, and his minority partner (as in only owned 10% of the company) spent all of his time trying to bang any female customer in the back of his minivan. He told every female customer that walked in the door he"d give them $500 off if they would screw him. How do you think that went over when their husbands found out? How do you think they enjoyed being called a prostitute as soon as they walked in? It goes on and on.Eomer said:I don"t really agree. While me and my brother don"t always get along great, and we"re most definitely not close (I would never call him up and be like "hey want to go for a beer?", as we have never done such a thing socially), I can trust him 100% and vice versa. I never have to worry that he"s going to steal from me or the company, or really do anything that"s not in our best interests overall. My dad and one uncle had a similar relationship, however their youngest brother had to go out and start his own company as he couldn"t get along with the two older brothers.
That"s not always the case with people and their family/friends, I agree. I guess we"re both lucky that way. I agree that involving family/friends as professionals such as your lawyer or accountant is a bad idea. Because if they fuck something up that costs you a lot of money or worse, you don"t want to worry about pissing off family because you"re suing a cousin or uncle or something. My dad had a bad experience with a brother in law being his lawyer, and swore he"d never make the same mistake again.
If I can"t control the whole deal, I"m not doing it. My wife comes from a family of moochers, and I"ve had to put my foot down.