Don't care what's between his/her legs. Not interested. Can she/he swing a sword, or heal me? Yes? Good. No? GTFO.
I'm not playing an RPG to have complex encounters with real life political and/or social issues. I'm playing an RPG to kill things and potentially solve one or two quests that make me use my brain instead of killing things. Unless her/his/its gender dilemma is going to help me solve a quest,don't fucking mention itunless it's clearly backstory that is in an alternate discussion topic that I actually asked her/him/it about.
If they force this content on me, I will be annoyed by it, because gaming is a form of escape for me. I'm not interested in reading about this stuff in the news as well as in the games I play. No no no.