I agree with this. I remember when my parents spent 4k on dog surgery that ended up killing their dog, yet didn't give me a dime for college or help me buy a car (or allow me to drive, I had to move out when I was 26 just so I could get a license.)You are doing good man, don't get discouraged. Keep it up.
But, do you mind if I ask how much the "Dog ER visit" was? This recently came up in my family. My cousin's dog got cancer and my mom disclosed that he drained his most of his retirement account, allegedly "over $16,000" (dude is in early 30's and doesn't make much), to pay for it. And the dog *might* live another year.
Spending $16,000 on dog surgery is egregiously bad money management. Fuck that is a car, hefty house down payment, or a seed for kid's college fund. I have 2 dogs, but there's a cutoff of around $1000 medical bills and they are getting put down. Anyone else have a hypothetical "dog ER cost ceiling"?
I don't even know why I talk to my parents, fuck.