Please elaborate, without resorting to "But look what THIS 'feminist' says" and linking to the aforementioned redhead.
She runs through a list of MRA gripes, like higher male worker deaths, disproportionately dangerous positions, unfair court bias, And we could go on--like the massive differences in federal grant money for male vs female diseases ect); and says "those are part of patriarchy and
Feminism doesn't like them!" (I'm not agreeing or disagreeing with this being a problem, mind you--just stating the typical MRA gripes). However, the reality is that there is a very powerful group of radical, or highly ideological feminists that view the "system" as zero sum gains--and so actively try to dissuade any progress in these areas of "unfairness" because they believe that any aid to men will begin a back lash against "women" and destroy the gains made.
You'vewritten these protests and lobby efforts off as some
"radicals that don't represent "us"("Normal" Feminists who genuinely want equality and view female favoring disparities as vestiges of chauvinist patriarchy).
Butthe problem Tan, and the problem with that article, is just like in politics--typically the most radical elements of any group, are ALSO the most active. So while, I have no doubt, the vast swath of feminist believe in what that person said--the most active and far more radical "feminists" will be the ones actually dictating policy in the real world.
Really, man. It's amazing you said the Tea party comparison was a good article--and then link the "feminism" article was ALSO good. Don't you see how they are completely at odds? Groups are almost ALWAYS slaves to their most radical members (Again, mainly due to their political capital being spendable 24/7, 365, while moderates lose support outside of elections or important events); and there are plenty of logical reasons that this happens (I could expand if you want in another post, but it would be long). Hell, for the last 30+ years the dominant political campaign strategy, designed by Rove, has been exploiting that trend amongst political groups. And you know what? It works.
So denying on one hand that the radicals aren't "real feminism", like that article states--while then acknowledging that the radicals have hijacked your ideology seems like an instance of you explaining to yourself why that article was crap. Again, don't get me wrong--I'm a big picture kind of guy, those gripes in the greater context,