Because they are. They are perceptions. They have no statistical value and have no meaning outside of the context of your personal experiences.
No, you are giving 'feelings' about the way things are in the form of anecdotal stories. When others provide anecdotal stories to suggest that your singular experience is not, in fact, the singular derivation for how the world operates, you try and fight it with hackneyed logic. Like this post right here.
Everyone acknowledges there are differences from the majority. However as you are attempting to prove a 'societal norm' and therefore that a majority of experiences will mimic your vision of reality, you will have to do more than assert yourvery strongfeelings while wagging about your nebulous 'academic' background.