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SYou know what my first post in the Redpill thread was? "This might be the first argument I've seen where both sides are right." Don't get me wrong, I can't stand TPR. But reading all that was being said, it seemed like there was good reason to believe that there was at least a kernel of truth in TRP's analysis of human behavior. Apparently, you can predict how people's subconscious will make them more susceptible to certain approaches. That doesn't make it not terrible, but I can't just dismiss it outright as sexist nonsense either. Why couldn't we use some of the theories championed by TRP when discussing gender, sexual and relationship issues? If anything TRP says has merit, it's worth discussing. The parts that don't have merit should be legitimately criticised and dismissed as meritless, when appropriate.

Did I stutter?
Okay, fair enough, I forgot about that post of yours.

I disagree with that stance, because using sources you know are heavily biased poisons the discussion. For example, how am I to use Anita's videos to feed into the discussion? I know some parts of it are false, but I don't know how much else is false or how much else is true. I can't trust the video, so using it as a discussion for me just doesn't work.

Same way with the Red Pill stuff. Sure, some of it might have some truth. Certainly I believe there are differences between the sexes. However, I can't trust anything they put up, so how can it add to the discussion? If they say something I already know or believe, okay, fine. If they say something I disagree with or am unsure about, I don't know if its true or is just their bias. I don't get how it would be useful.
 

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Sarkeesian and Quinn get horrifically and publicly harassed, everyone everywhere sees them get lambasted by hateful sexist assholes, the media decides to focus on it. How is that sexist?
The point of this line was to illustrate the difference in views when applied to the media's reaction of a critique of their own bias--vs the media's reaction when these same standards are used to critique developers using women in video games. Your point here, is astraw man. (Highlight of the straw man)******Essentially I made the point that by Anita's own formulation, the media's coverage IS sexism--you then used a counterpoint "What's wrong with the media pointing out sexism".******

Again, the point is, if the media believes Anita is doing good work, then they must ALSO believe they are biased and it's a form of sexism. By her OWN judgement.


Well, that's the idea behind the videos. If you disagree, you are welcome to criticize the content of her videos publicly. If what you say has merit and is interesting, people will read it and nobody will call you sexist.
But if I criticize the media, using the same methodology Anita used--I am called, or intimated to be a sexist. If people respond to media bias, they are intimated as such. You've done so yourself, multiple times, in this thread. Remember how you asked "why is it such a big deal in to criticize the media over Anita"? Asking me, essentially, why have myself and others picked this battle; and then ostentatiously illustrated that the target of our criticism are females. (Yep, you were pretty subtle intimating that the reason for it was sexism--I'm not going to pull out quotes but if you deny this, I will--please just be honest and admit you did this.)

Also, as said above--this is a straw man. The original question was highlighting how the media applauded Anita's hypothesis that the different portrayal of women in gaming, from men--is sexist. When it's highlighted that the media ALSO portrays a different narrative surrounding women--and evidence is given in that light (Much like Anita picked examples from games)--somehow THAT comparison must stem from sexism.

Or lets break it down further. Anita believes the treatement of women in games is sexist. She finds a bunch of video games and gives examples of how the treatment of women is different--and the media agrees, she is finding sexism. Many Gamergate people believe the treatment if certain agendas/women in the media is ALSO sexist. They find a bunch of articles and give a bunch of examples of how the treatment of women is different--and the media disagrees; and thinks the people supplying the evidence ARE sexist.


Wait a second. First it was "Legitimate criticism is being stifled!" Now it's "Legitimate criticism isn't being stifled in all cases, but look at what happened to Jack Thompson six years ago! Why isn't Kotaku taking responsibility for that NOW?" Look at those goalposts fly.
Would it make you happy if Kotaku published an apology for how they handled Thompson's situation six years ago, before online harassment became the story it is now? Heck, if you just needed an example of a male who was targeted with harassment to show this isn't a gender-skewed problem, why not at least choose Phil Fish? He was totally the victim of harassment and doxxing very recently. Why didn't you choose him as an example?
Jack Thompson is a point of evidence; so by definition he can't be a goal post in your fallacy (Please use fallacies correctly.) This entire argument he has been used as a point of comparison, not as a requirement to change behavior or as need for Kotaku to change thier behavior. This, in other words, is another straw man. The point was, once more, to illustrate your inability to see bias. Not to chastise Kotaku or shift the goal post of the conversation--this entire time the goal post has been for you to admit this very simple phrase "It's possible gaming media has an agenda that could be affected by gender. I'm not sure, but it's possible."--this point, was within the bounds of that discussion. Just because it was made mocking your clear cognitive dissonance doesn't change that fact. (Also, it would NOT make me happy if Kotoko apologized. I believe Kotoko handled the Thompson situation CORRECTLY. The threats were obvious hyperbole that should simply have been dismissed as such and ignored or moderated out.)

I didn't choose Phish because the articles about him were enjoined with Zoe Quin. In fact, most, if not all articles written about him ALSO blame the attacks on sexism; and say it's over his defense of women in gaming. The bias of gender still remains in the Phil Fish example; because his attacks are blamed on him "standing with women". In fact, you can point to Fish as more evidence of the bias; because he was in the press as being harassed because he was "against" Gamergate. Meanwhile, real life threats, doxxing, hacking and many other forms of harassment have been leveled toward TFYC, The Notyourshield originator, and Brietbart--yet none of these aspects of harassment have been reported on. (Why? What's different? The Notyourshield guy is a game developer, as are TFYC--so why no coverage for them? Could it be because they were criticizing the women in question, while Fish was defending them?)

Anything else? Please, minimize the straw mans. It's very simple. You have evidence the editors make special allowances for harassment. You ALSO have evidence the nature of the coverage changes when the implication of the attack if sexism, or has something to do with gender. If you disregard Thompson, then why haven't the attacks on TFYC, or the Gamergate heads or Brietbart been talked about AT ALL? These people have now recieved real life threats, threats at their job (And were fired), hacking of their accounts, of their companies, Doxxing, DDOS attacks and a host of other nefarious shit. But there isNO coverage of itEXCEPT in the Escapist thread which the editors of rival news sources have literally said they wanted silenced.
 

Tanoomba

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Wow you're such a piece of shit. In the case of the Hitman clip, there are only two reasonable option to what she did. She either intentionally and maliciously misrepresented the game to prove her point, or she never played it and never performed any research to find out if this was a misrepresentation.

There's no "oops she just just made an honest mistake" here. Her own words damn her in this case.
Like I said already, it's also entirely possible that Sarkeesian is jaded and sees examples of sexism where others wouldn't. It's entirely possible that Sarkeesian mistakenly assumed players would be just as delighted killing strippers in Hitman as they were killing hookers in GTA. It's possible that she has someone play games for her to get her to certain points she wants to use for her videos. So yeah, her research might have been bad, but that's not the same as lying. The whole point is there are other explanations besides "she intentionally and maliciously misrepresented the game to prove her point", and to jump to that conclusion is indicative of a strong desire to discredit and dismiss her. It's lazy, it's disingenuous and it's EXACTLY what all the Zimmerman haters were doing during the Trayvon trial (yes, including me initially). They saw what, on the surface, seemed to be overwhelming evidence that supported Zimmerman being a racist and not only assumed he was guilty but actively rejected alternate scenarios in which Zimmerman's actions were justified. It turns out that what we see on the surface, even things we consider "proof" of some accusation, are not always as airtight as we initially assume.

But you know how you can avoid looking like an idiot by jumping to conclusions? By actually criticising Sarkeesian on the merits of her work itself. Like a rational, reasonable person. Crazy idea, I know.
 

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"Players are meant to derive a perverse pleasure from desecrating the bodies of unsuspecting virtual female characters. It's a rush streaming from a carefully concocted mix of sexual arousal connected to the act of controlling and punishing representations of female sexuality. The player cannot help but treat these female bodies as things to be acted upon because they were designed, constructed, and placed in the environment for that singular purpose."

There's no discussion to be had here. There's really no reason to do anything other than dismiss her and move on with my day. I've got no reason to go watch any of her other videos.
 

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Are you really defending amateur hour with people who want to "change society"?
 

Mario Speedwagon

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Like I said already, it's also entirely possible that Sarkeesian is jaded and sees examples of sexism where others wouldn't. It's entirely possible that Sarkeesian mistakenly assumed players would be just as delighted killing strippers in Hitman as they were killing hookers in GTA.
No. That's fucking ridiculous. It's not a possibility.
 

Tanoomba

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You're talking about an author who relies on her conjecture without any credible sources or research. If you find flaws in her argument, you can't help but assume her entire work suspect. Anything less would be intellectually dishonest, just as she has been. The fact that she uses blatant lies and emotionally charged rhetoric to 'create' controversy does not make her points valid or provide them worth.

Consider an extreme case like a man went around video taping himself beating women to create 'awareness' of gender violence issues. It would be 'wrong' of course, but your position is that such activity still has value, methods be damned? At what point is 'harm' done to the cause or root arguments?
When actual harm is done to people. Your example is terrible. A better example would be Michael Moore. He made highly critical movies that used suspect and misleading editing techniques to make his points. Yes, we have to take everything he says with a grain of salt. Yes, he has his way of framing the discussion he wants to make. Yes, his shady practices deserve to be analysed and criticised. Yes, he still makes good points and his movies are thought-provoking and entertaining.

You know what I got out of Sarkeesian's videos? It wasn't "The gaming industry hates women." It wasn't "We need to change the game industry to make feminists happy." It wasn't "People are sexist because they play sexist games." No, the message I took away was "Wouldn't it be cool if game developers started to get more imaginative instead on depending on old, generic tropes?" And I DO think that would be cool, and I DO think that's what's happening now. How is this a bad thing? But then again, I don't thinkthe feminists are out to get me.
 

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the message I took away was "Wouldn't it be cool if game developers started to get more imaginative instead on depending on old, generic tropes?
"Players are meant to derive a perverse pleasure from desecrating the bodies of unsuspecting virtual female characters. It's a rush streaming from a carefully concocted mix of sexual arousal connected to the act of controlling and punishing representations of female sexuality. The player cannot help but treat these female bodies as things to be acted upon because they were designed, constructed, and placed in the environment for that singular purpose."
 

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When actual harm is done to people. Your example is terrible. A better example would be Michael Moore. He made highly critical movies that used suspect and misleading editing techniques to make his points. Yes, we have to take everything he says with a grain of salt. Yes, he has his way of framing the discussion he wants to make. Yes, his shady practices deserve to be analysed and criticised. Yes, he still makes good points and his movies are thought-provoking and entertaining.

You know what I got out of Sarkeesian's videos? It wasn't "The gaming industry hates women." It wasn't "We need to change the game industry to make feminists happy." It wasn't "People are sexist because they play sexist games." No, the message I took away was "Wouldn't it be cool if game developers started to get more imaginative instead on depending on old, generic tropes?" And I DO think that would be cool, and I DO think that's what's happening now. How is this a bad thing? But then again, I don't thinkthe feminists are out to get me.
So there's no burden of intellectualism or scientific inquiry at all? Literally the only thing stopping a piece of work from being unacceptably dishonest is that 'someone gets hurt'? Well, what about the people getting caught up in this scandalous enterprise who have their livelihoods ruined? That's not 'hurt' enough? We have to wait for a riotous and violent activist to push someone down a staircase for it to have 'gone too far'.

Plus, the fact that you think that her message is "wouldn't it be nice" when she is creating controversyout of thin airand defaming game developers is absolutely ludicrous. There are absolutely zero honest points she talks about in her quintessential video. There have been endless amounts of strong and good female leads in video games for a long, long, long time and yet instead of looking at the larger picture and doing research, she is fabricating facts in order to gain support.

Why didn't she lambaste Minecraft? You could make a giant vagina and blow it up with TNT. The only characters are male, too. Sounds like patriarchy! I'm not suggesting that her assertions are wrong. Clearly no one here has amassed a body of proof to conclude that. However that does not under any circumstances mean that we should not take her video as anything but a shell game. That she exposes people to a myriad of lies and quickly shuffles them around to try and prove her feels does not mean there is not sexism in games, but it does invalidate her work. She needs to redo it with facts and proper research.
 

Sebudai

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You know what I got out of Sarkeesian's videos? It wasn't "The gaming industry hates women." It wasn't "We need to change the game industry to make feminists happy." It wasn't "People are sexist because they play sexist games." No, the message I took away was "Wouldn't it be cool if game developers started to get more imaginative instead on depending on old, generic tropes?" And I DO think that would be cool, and I DO think that's what's happening now. How is this a bad thing? But then again, I don't thinkthe feminists are out to get me.
How on earth could you possibly come to that conclusion? She is clearly implying--if not flat-out asserting--that these tropes are causing real-world damage. You're going to roll-up in here and try to pretend that you believe she's received this kind of blowback over a simple appeal for more creative storytelling in video games? Haha.

I largely view her videos as the latest iteration of the "D&D leads to devil worship!" type of pearl clutching we've seen countless times before.

Video games get more violent, sexually explicit and brutal every year. Violent crime and sexual assaults must be skyrocketing!1!1!!!
 

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Why didn't she lambaste Minecraft? You could make a giant vagina and blow it up with TNT. The only characters are male, too. Sounds like patriarchy!
Oh man, just think of the opportunities for debate such a video would allow for. And if anyone said it was ridiculous you could attack them for not taking your hyperbolic nonsense seriously!
 

Tanoomba

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The point of this line was to illustrate the difference in views when applied to the media's reaction of a critique of their own bias--vs the media's reaction when these same standards are used to critique developers using women in video games. Your point here, is astraw man. (Highlight of the straw man)******Essentially I made the point that by Anita's own formulation, the media's coverage IS sexism--you then used a counterpoint "What's wrong with the media pointing out sexism".******

Again, the point is, if the media believes Anita is doing good work, then they must ALSO believe they are biased and it's a form of sexism. By her OWN judgement.
Wait, what? None of that makes any sense. Not your comparison of media critique vs sexism in games critique, not your straw man assessment, and not your "support of Sarkeesian = belief they are biased" line.

But if I criticize the media, using the same methodology Anita used--I am called, or intimated to be a sexist. If people respond to media bias, they are intimated as such. You've done so yourself, multiple times, in this thread. Remember how you asked "why is it such a big deal in to criticize the media over Anita"? Asking me, essentially, why have myself and others picked this battle; and then ostentatiously illustrated that the target of our criticism are females. (Yep, you were pretty subtle intimating that the reason for it was sexism--I'm not going to pull out quotes but if you deny this, I will--please just be honest and admit you did this.)
Listen, dude. Sarkeesian made videos about the portrayal of women in video games. You get that, right? There is no controversy there. She made fucking videos and shared them on the internet. People could criticise those videos until they were blue in the face and, as long as the criticism was valid, nobody could call them sexist. Now when some people choose to attack her as a person, all of a sudden people start calling them sexist. Why is that? Does that seem unfair to you? Maybe it's because people don't like to see someone who made a few interesting videos about video games being accused of lying and cheating based on nothing more substantial than wild speculation. Maybe it's because if there were problems with Sarkeesian's work, that would be better expressed by talking about the work itself. Maybe it's because many of the people calling for her blood are doing so using explicitly misogynistic language. But again, when someone who's only crime was talking critically about how women are portrayed in video games is being targeted by a pitchfork-wielding mob of angry haters who INSIST she be held accountable for lying, cheating and stealing (with no evidence), yes, people are going to think that's sexist.
Similarly, if you insist on pushing this "Mainstream media is protecting Sarkeesian because she's a woman" rhetoric, when there are alternate reasonable explanations for why they give her publicity, why they started to focus on the issue of harassment and why they aren't talking about what's wrong with her videos, yeah, some people are going to think you're sexist. That may not be fair, but when you choose to defend the side that's only gained attention because of the sexist assholes that champion it, you put yourself in the line of fire that's directed at them. Is this news?

If I talk about the legitimate concerns of Hamas and how they actually have some good reasons to do what they do, should I be surprised when people label me an anti-semite? If I put apple juice in a beer bottle and drink it in my car, should I be surprised when a cop pulls me over? "Why would you pull me over, man? This is apple juice!" This is why I think you're being obtuse. You're taking some moral crusade about being able to take the same stance as sexist assholes without being labelled a sexist asshole. Don't get me wrong, I don't think you're sexist for criticising mainstream gaming media, I just think it's silly to ask "Why does accusing the mainstream media of unfairly giving preferential coverage to females make people accuse me of sexism?" while ignoring the context of everything going on that makes it super-clear why that would happen.

Or lets break it down further. Anita believes the treatement of women in games is sexist. She finds a bunch of video games and gives examples of how the treatment of women is different--and the media agrees, she is finding sexism. Many Gamergate people believe the treatment if certain agendas/women in the media is ALSO sexist. They find a bunch of articles and give a bunch of examples of how the treatment of women is different--and the media disagrees; and thinks the people supplying the evidence ARE sexist.
Again, context. The only reason Gamergate got any attention at all is because of sexism. Otherwise, it's an exceptionally weak story. The doxxing, threatening, nude-pic spreading sexist assholes created Gamergate, not Quinn. So when some guys say "Listen, we're totally not sexist, but we NEED to keep talking about who Zoe Quinn slept with. For journalistic integrity", the media responds with "Thanks for the suggestion, but no. We're not opening up that shitstorm again. We've determined the claim that Quinn slept with a journalist to get a good review was false, and it simply doesn't matter who she slept with." The request for "the truth" might have come from an honest desire to straighten out the media, but the context in which it was made made it virtually impossible for the media to oblige.

But here, because you asked nicely:
It's possible gaming media has an agenda that could be affected by gender. I'm not sure, but it's possible.
 

Tanoomba

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Plus, the fact that you think that her message is "wouldn't it be nice" when she is creating controversyout of thin airand defaming game developers is absolutely ludicrous. There are absolutely zero honest points she talks about in her quintessential video. There have been endless amounts of strong and good female leads in video games for a long, long, long time and yet instead of looking at the larger picture and doing research, she is fabricating facts in order to gain support.
Wasn't "out of thin air", sexist portrayals of women actually do exist in video games. She didn't "defame" game developers, she criticised them. I think they'll survive her words. And yes, there are strong and good female leads in games, but her videos are not about strong and good female leads. Her videos are about sexist gaming tropes, so that's what she talks about. "Why aren't their any sushi recipes in this Italian cook book?"
 

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No, the reason it got attention was because it was a random non-issue used to illustrate the point of an incestuous 'journalism' practice but instead of admitting and responding to the issue of personal conduct, she deflected by accusing them of 'attacking' her under the guise of sexism. As if unacceptable conduct in a vacuum was suddenly acceptable forherand the only reason to decry it was because she was a woman. Bullshit. But as usual the vocal 'feminists'/SJW crowd didn't distance themselves and say "yep, actually you were in the wrong" they jumped on the bandwagon, launching at any opportunity to wave a banner, any desperate banner, regardless of the facts involved. Even IF the entire 'attack' on Zoe Quinn was malicious with intent, there can be no doubt it was based on a personal issue and not some grand woman-hating crusade that the 'opposition' loves to fantasize about.
 

Tanoomba

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How on earth could you possibly come to that conclusion? She is clearly implying--if not flat-out asserting--that these tropes are causing real-world damage. You're going to roll-up in here and try to pretend that you believe she's received this kind of blowback over a simple appeal for more creative storytelling in video games? Haha.
Doesn't matter. I don't think Ms. Pac Man is causing real-world damage. But I do think games could stand to be more creative. See what I did there? I dismissed what I didn't agree with and valued the perspective I thought had merit. Isn't that ca-raaaaazy?

Also, some of my favorite movies have stupid plotlines. Some TV shows I like have dull episodes. Some video games I adore include mechanics or design choices that drive me crazy. You take the good with the bad (Yin and yang and all that jazz), you take advantage of the culture you are exposed to to learn and grow as a person, and above all else you don't threaten to drink blood out of a woman's torn-open vagina. That Tanoomba, what a nut.
 

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Wasn't "out of thin air", sexist portrayals of women actually do exist in video games. She didn't "defame" game developers, she criticised them. I think they'll survive her words. And yes, there are strong and good female leads in games, but her videos are not about strong and good female leads. Her videos are about sexist gaming tropes, so that's what she talks about. "Why aren't their any sushi recipes in this Italian cook book?"
So do sexist portrayals of men, all over the place. The only reason you are blind to it is that apparently systemic gender issues can only exist for women in your fantasyland. The disposable male foot-soldier that exists as the generic antagonist is nearly universalandare put there by developers specifically as threatening males to be gunned down without end. Yet no mention of that, only the fact that she found some video games with no strong major female characters.
 

Tanoomba

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So do sexist portrayals of men, all over the place. The only reason you are blind to it is that apparently systemic gender issues can only exist for women in your fantasyland. The disposable male foot-soldier that exists as the generic antagonist is nearly universalandare put there by developers specifically as threatening males to be gunned down without end. Yet no mention of that, only the fact that she found some video games with no strong major female characters.
What makes you think I'm blind to it? Of course video games are full of sexist portrayals of men. If you can make a video about that without sounding like smug, sarcastic asshole trying to stick it to the feminazis I promise you I'll watch it. But that's not what Sarkeesian's video was about. Again, it was about sexist portrayals of women in video games. Hence, that's what she talks about.

...Are you getting this?
 

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Doesn't matter. I don't think Ms. Pac Man is causing real-world damage. But I do think games could stand to be more creative. See what I did there? I dismissed what I didn't agree with and valued the perspective I thought had merit. Isn't that ca-raaaaazy?
lol.

"Stop criticizing Jonathan Swift. He's just trying to help poor Irish families!" - Tanoomba
 

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What makes you think I'm blind to it? Of course video games are full of sexist portrayals of men. If you can make a video about that without sounding like smug, sarcastic asshole trying to stick it to the feminazis I promise you I'll watch it. But that's not what Sarkeesian's video was about. Again, it was about sexist portrayals of women in video games. Hence, that's what she talks about.

...Are you getting this?
Oh, so my video would have to not be smug or sarcastic to have merit, but hers are OK with blatant lies and emotionally charged accusations?

Your idiotic assertion that anyone who fabricates the truth should have any standing simply because they are either a woman or you 'feel the issue probably does exist' is ridiculous.

...Are you getting this?