The weird part is that everyone sitting there was extremely privileged in the sense that we all have nice homes, our kids go to good schools, everyone has jobs, some have million dollar plus homes. The woman in question her parents were born in India I believe, and she married a white guy. But he has dutifully declared himself a "White ally" ... which apparently is the term for it, so I guess he's ok. The other white people there one woman was literally tripping over herself to give her cred in "helping black kids" and saying how she hates when someone says "my kids are colorblind".
It was seriously creepy. Very religious zealot vibe to it all. I felt like they were all condemning sinners and looking to burn heretics while making themselves feel virtuous.
Meanwhile, when not talking about all this? Normal people, nice even.