That's really the key difference between the current cancer and old school feminist characters. Look at Mad Max fury road--it is totally a female centered film, with really overt female empowerment symbolism--and it was great. Mainly because the writers didn't try to raise the main character up by putting men down. Bad men were just the bad guys, they weren't some stand in for masculinity, and the women even showed compassion for the 'war boys' plight, understanding that just because they were men, didn't mean they weren't also abused. Also, the writers didn't have to try and make the heroine ridiculous to make her powerful--she lost a physical confrontation with Max even though Max was literally chained up, and 4 other women were holding him back. But in other ways, she showed she was Max's equal, or even better than him.
I love the rifle scene. Because it shows how subtly the writers showed she respected Max. You can see her wanting to say "let me take the shot, I'm a better shot with a long gun"--but she doesn't. Because she respects him, and doesn't want to insult him--she trusts him to asses the situation. If this had been a more modern feminist hot-take, there would have been some dialogue about him being a man baby, and to let her show him how its done--then additional dialogue about 'shows you not to doubt a woman!" Then later in the truck there would have been some dialogue among the women about how men are too insecure to let women be strong. It's just all so tiring, and undermines the one thing these idiots say they want--an actual bad ass female character.