I worked probably 20 hours a day, six days a week for about 15 years to get to where I am. I'm Black, no one has given me anything, and people still try to take my shit and my credentials because of it on a daily basis.
I have zero empathy for millenials who walk in the door and expect they are going to make more than I do. More than once, these guys have asked for 25% more than I draw, with a company car, cell phone, etc. The whole thing about I have intrinsic value, so I'm owed is bullshit. They can't hold down jobs making minimum wage, because they don't bother to show up to work (or show up on time). And they sit there texting on the phone all day, rather than work.
Like Dad told me, no one owes you anything in this life.
Maybe I sound like an old guy, but my Granddad used to preach to me about work ethic. He used to come home smiling after working 16 hour days in the steel factory. He ended up being a Foreman, and that was back when there were no other Black Foremen at his company at that time. He told me if you hustle harder, you can move up.