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Ossoi

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Sorry the truth hurts. As I said earlier, women tend to marry up and across the social ladder. Men have no issues marrying down. It's because men value looks more than women, so a poor woman from a poor family who with model looks is a high value prize for a man. But women value status more than looks, hence why they tend to marry across/up
 
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Tmac

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pharmakos said:
Uh yeah, she's got a killer job, she's involved in politics and charity. You act like the only thing a woman is worth is her relationship with her husband. There's sooooo much more to a person than their significant other, bruv....
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How she acts in her most intimate relationships is the only metric you need to understand to know how she'll treat you. Her happiness is clearly more important than her commitment. What she wants is clearly more important than what her husband wants. And instead of working on it with him, she's abandoned her relationship for greener pastures.

Thems the facts you laid out.

But hey, you do you. Sounds like you want to be in a bad relationship. Go for it.
 
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pharmakos

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looks don't matter to women. By your own account she's an alpha female in business, which means she's used to competing against alpha men. You've admitted to being her cuddle bunny - lmao, literally that's like one of the first things PUAs learn when they start taking women home but can't fuck them - STOP BEING THEIR FUCKING CUDDLE BUNNY. lmao cuddle bunny pharmakos pharmakos pharmakos pharmakos lmao.
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For the forty seventh time -- I'm not looking to get my dick wet.

I was a manwhore in college, if I was just looking to pull lots of tail, there are two bars within walking distance of my house.
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You're her cuddle bunny, who doesn't push her for sex, probably hold every door open for her, let her decide what to do etc etc. Sooner or later her interest in you will dry up when she realises you're betamaxing harder than [IMG alt="Rajaah"]https://www.firesofheaven.org/data/avatars/s/11/11730.jpg?1625980579[/IMG] Rajaah trying to find his 90s vivid video VHS porno retrowank crush, lmao

pharmakos pharmakos pharmakos pharmakos [IMG alt="Rajaah"]https://www.firesofheaven.org/data/avatars/s/11/11730.jpg?1625980579[/IMG] Rajaah [IMG alt="BoozeCube"]https://www.firesofheaven.org/data/avatars/s/0/91.jpg?1669946588[/IMG] BoozeCube Nirgon Nirgon Nirgon Nirgon the Four Horsemen of the FOH Inceloclypse, lmao
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She's born into wealth. Can't go into too many identifying details but her father was a high ranking politican in South America (again, stuff I confirmed after she told me). She's obviously enamored with the bohemian lifestyle, I think she's looking to simplify. And no, I'm not that much of a beta -- real alphas don't need to play games to prove their alphaness.

I hate talking like this, my posting history shows I rarely do, but just this one... quite honestly Ossoi -- I'm the natural alpha / the one that naturally falls into the leadership role in groups whether I like it or not, especially with women. Being hung like a horse helps a lot, but that aside, I've got a lot of natural swagger. Thing is -- I proved all that to myself when I was a much younger man living in Mount Pleasant, Michigan (notorious party town, home of one of Playboys Top 10 Party Colleges, Central Michigan University). Chasing tail is not emotionally fulfilling at all tho. Plus the better you are in bed, the fucking crazier the women you sleep with end up turning over time. Being a fuckboy is not worth the fucking drama even IF it was otherwise fulfilling lol. Trust me.
 
pharmakos

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How she acts in her most intimate relationships is the only metric you need to understand to know how she'll treat you. Her happiness is clearly more important than her commitment. What she wants is clearly more important than what her husband wants. And instead of working on it with him, she's abandoned her relationship for greener pastures.

Thems the facts you laid out.

But hey, you do you. Sounds like you want to be in a bad relationship. Go for it.
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Brother it would be one thing if these were wants decided on a whim. But we are talking about something they agreed to before signing their marriage contract. She was dumb for not getting a prenup but still, we are talking THE DETAILS OF THE FAMILY THEY AGREED TO BUILD TOGETHER, LITERALLY TALKING ABOUT CHILDREN'S LIVES. It's not like it's just "I want to move to Malibu and he wants to move to Palm Beach" or some shit.
 
Oblio

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pharmakos said:
If you weren't such an insufferable jerk with the way you speak I'd probably be more willing to listen, but you are intentionally standoffish even here in the grown up forum, so it's like ... Yeah dude. Take the chip off your shoulder and maybe then we can talk mmmk?
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He is just jealous that you got an actual date.
 
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Nirgon

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Ossoi said:
looks don't matter to women. By your own account she's an alpha female in business, which means she's used to competing against alpha men. You've admitted to being her cuddle bunny - lmao, literally that's like one of the first things PUAs learn when they start taking women home but can't fuck them - STOP BEING THEIR FUCKING CUDDLE BUNNY. lmao cuddle bunny pharmakos pharmakos lmao.

You're her cuddle bunny, who doesn't push her for sex, probably hold every door open for her, let her decide what to do etc etc. Sooner or later her interest in you will dry up when she realises you're betamaxing harder than @Rajaah trying to find his 90s vivid video VHS porno retrowank crush, lmao

pharmakos pharmakos @Rajaah @BoozeCube Nirgon Nirgon the Four Horsemen of the FOH Inceloclypse, lmao
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Ya you shoot cheap (perhaps tasteful) porno in your apartment, grats. I gotta extend the god damned genetic line (1 popped out and solid, 1 on the way) because my brother is largely worthless. So I get the desk job and (now paid) mortgage road. I do hope you enjoy whatever yer doing.

Obligatory for ya:

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Tmac

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pharmakos said:
Brother it would be one thing if these were wants decided on a whim. But we are talking about something they agreed to before signing their marriage contract. She was dumb for not getting a prenup but still, we are talking THE DETAILS OF THE FAMILY THEY AGREED TO BUILD TOGETHER, LITERALLY TALKING ABOUT CHILDREN'S LIVES. It's not like it's just "I want to move to Malibu and he wants to move to Palm Beach" or some shit.
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That's why vows include for better or for worse, bc relationships are hard. If you're forgiving and committed they work. Sounds like you think she has really great reasons for being neither forgiving or committed and a cheater.

Good luck!
 
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Oblio

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Tmac said:
That's why vows include for better or for worse, bc relationships are hard. If you're forgiving and committed they work.
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This is 100% true, relationships are seldom 50/50 at any given point in time. Depending on what is going on with you or your SO they could be 60/40 - 70/30 or 40/60 - 30/70 etc. It ebbs and flows both ways and having a partner willing to pick up the slack when you are struggling with work or family or whatever is awesome. It has to go both ways though thus making the 50/50 in the overall relationship. If it is always 80/20 one way that relationship may last but it ain't healthy.
 
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Ossoi

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Nirgon said:
Ya you shoot cheap (perhaps tasteful) porno in your apartment, grats.
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IT'S A DUNGEON ACTUALLY

lol at not being able to decide if my content is cheap or tasteful. That's actually a compliment.
 
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alavaz

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What's your role in the relationship long term? Are you cool with being a stay at home dad to kids that aren't yours while your wife is gone relatively often? It sounds like I'm asking that derisively - I'm not trying to, I just want to give you something to think about.

At least you'll know the signs if she starts cheating on you at some point. If that does happen (or if this goes wrong one of the other million ways), then what about the kids and the relationships you've built? Would you want to be a single father living off of child/spousal support?

Again, I'm not saying it's impossible, but I wouldn't want to take that risk on a relationship that started on the foundation of infidelity. Best of luck whatever happens.
 
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pharmakos

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alavaz said:
What's your role in the relationship long term? Are you cool with being a stay at home dad to kids that aren't yours while your wife is gone relatively often? It sounds like I'm asking that derisively - I'm not trying to, I just want to give you something to think about.

At least you'll know the signs if she starts cheating on you at some point. If that does happen (or if this goes wrong one of the other million ways), then what about the kids and the relationships you've built? Would you want to be a single father living off of child/spousal support?

Again, I'm not saying it's impossible, but I wouldn't want to take that risk on a relationship that started on the foundation infidelity. Best of luck whatever happens.
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Stay at home dad working on my music and writing when I'm not hanging out with the kiddos would be alright, but I would love to go back to school and finish my degrees. Which is something she sounds like she is all for.

Had not even considered marrying her then divorcing and getting alimony lol. But hmm 🤔
 
alavaz

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There's a lot of women out there that like to "fix" people. The cruel irony there is that they either choose unfixable mates, or sabotage when said mate is actually "fixed." How much have you asked about the husband? Do you know what he was like when she was in love with him?
 
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pharmakos

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alavaz said:
There's a lot of women out there that like to "fix" people. The cruel irony there is that they either choose unfixable mates, or sabotage when said mate is actually "fixed." How much have you asked about the husband? Do you know what he was like when she was in love with him?
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Legitimately just seems like she dated with him because it seemed like "the thing to do"... Shortly after she moved to America they were set up on a blind date. He's a total mayo and white bread type judging by her photos on Facebook. Says they never even snuggle. He doesn't invite her out, in fact the opposite "oh you probably won't want to come you'll be bored" etc like he just legitimately doesn't want to be around her.
 
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