I think too many of you are trying to look for an easy explanation on why TLPs are toxic when the answer is a variety of reasons all contribute.
The biggest one is competition based on numbers. Do you old fucks remember actual in era life? You didn't just know every 50/60/65 by chance... there were not that many of them in most places. More importantly though they were not the majority; most of the server was low level and sustained the elite. Further, often those max leveled did not care to raid, did it casually, or were content behind the bleeding edge.
Compare to tlp. Max level is the norm. Wanting to raid is the norm. Current content is the expectation. Then you have multiple chars per person to multiply this. You are starting with an environment that is wildly competitive far beyond anything remotely akin to original eq's casual playground.
Second is escalating standards. If first in force gets the mob what happens if my guild camps out seb when trak is due? If you are off in chardok etc you lose that race. What happens if you instead counter by just parking your guild past juggs? Either we come post up next to you or we now lose the race.
Combine pog was referenced earlier. Great example. In kunark due to over enforcement during races and arbitrary gm rulings, come velious the gloves were off. The tuna example, it was actually considered the safer move to stay out and just race you for her than to come early and co-clear trash, risking trains or bans etc. We could let you have it but we were mad zerging, and you (WI right?) had that one perma that hacked and fucked with us for 2 months and your GM was a forum warrior. Ego was at stake. Grief went wild.
Fast forward to pop. Foh disbanded and nobody has stepped up. Roi claimed 1st from them and doesn't look to be unseated. Now drama is the exception, I could lead pug raids doing jailor, and by god everyone was basically chums. What gave? Competition. The whole thing de-escalated to where people mostly did not sock, then to where races were even clean.
What happened on future tlps? Fast leveling and stupid long lockouts meant competition came early, despite vanilla and kunark never being designed to handle raid competition. That is big and needs more emphasis - pre velious eq does not have the raid content to support multiple guilds, barring instancing. Meanwhile the tactics escalated. On tlp round 2 you saw the 3rd I think it was guild stockpile sks to instagib, so the #1 did it and better. The other server apparently added warping too, shit like vs dead almost instantly on expac up. How do you race a guild with enough ht to instakill a mob all laying fd at its spawn point? You dont. You jt first or you raid something else (impossible in kunark) or you dont raid.
Funny thing about phinny is it felt WAY less toxic than past servera due to instancing. I joined AOS in kunark and we were far dirtier than that period being in ROI, but outside vp and epics? People cound enjoy 90% of it fine. Velious was better minus the sleeper thing, which in hindsight we should have woken it immediately and skipped the bs over ebayables and dudes who get raging chubbies over the concept of kerafyrm...
So what is going to happen on this server? The same shit as phinny but worse because boxing is more figured out. Fast leveling means more competition up top. Vp keys will be heinous. Motm means zerg or gtfo.
Meanwhile attitudes are the same as always. People who want to win will do what it takes to win, or fail. When more people define winning as current content raiding, competition will go up. When what it takes to win goes up, winners will roll with it. Do you need 12 mages to get a kill in? Someone else will bring 13. Mages nerfed? Here come 40 monks. This is hardly new. Its just the barrier of access due to competition has gone up, while the available tactics due to hardware, boxing, and lack of enforcement have gone up too.
If you don't like it, you can either stay in instances and avoid stuff like wiz epics and vp that are toxic. Or fail, or be more toxic, those are options too.
Tldr - there will always be traffic as long as there are too many drivers wanting to go to the same places. Avoid rush hour, stick to only back roads, or deal with it.