Over the weekend, I understood why my friends had left the Selos server recently. It's sadly fairly dead when it comes to people grouping outside of raids. Don't get me wrong, there are some great people on the server that will go out of their way to help you out, but there's just not many people playing on Selos right now other than to log in for raids and then log out.
I'm kind of torn here. On one hand, I love the fact that Selos is hitting the expansions that I missed in my raiding days while at the same time has a super fast unlock timer, so those expansions don't drag on for ever. On the other hand, the pick up grouping scene for earning those AAs and completing the missions/tasks in era for each expansion are not there. You pretty much need to have a pre-made group, box your own group, or be able to solo all of the out-of-raid content that you need.
I'm certainly not saying it is a bad thing. I'm sure that the server is perfect for some. The server is fairly quiet, not a lot of trolling that I have seen, and those few people that are actively playing on it are VERY helpful and nice that I have met so far.
I ended up joining CI, and really enjoying raiding with them. I don't want to let them down because I just got in the guild, so I will continue to show up for raid nights, but if the server is still as dead when PoR opens next week, I might have to re-evaluate my time spent on Selos going forward.
**Edit** I just wanted to add that in no way am I posting this in hopes of people going out of their way to help me grouping or getting missions/tasks completed. That's not the intent at all. I am just saying that the average player with no connections on the server would have a very difficult time doing anything outside of raiding on this server the way it is right now. I'm not asking for help or handouts. I am just pointing out the reality of the current state of the server from my perspective.