Firstly, I would like to say that I"m sorry to hear shit went bad with your marriage, especially since you had known her for as long as you did, but it"s good that your divorce wound up about as good as one could go.
Now, to my real point: What I"ve gathered from all of this is, you"re in your low-to-mid 30"s, have a Master"s degree, have no debt, have been through an interesting marriage (so you already know all kinds of shit about what women can pull), have no children, and I can only assume you have a stable job already as well. And so with all of those pre-requisites met, I feel like the only life choice you can make once you"re a free man is to follow in the footsteps of Tiger and roll with this philosophy:
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Good luck sir.