It really is best to be who you are. I'm an obsolete forum larper who needs a new routine. The chatbot stuff and botting in general makes people's patience < 0.00001 on forums, and so you kind of have to just toss a lot of old stuff out the door, to gain altitude, to get over this mountain. And ooooooh friends. How did I get over?
Vintage Mahalia is not one of the things I'm gonna ever throw out of my airplane, so don't even ask.
Foler, you obviously crossed some bad lines, and you can un-cross them. Messing with people's forum-minds or being absurd and "noise" is one thing, but you can't actually twist an actual person in the wind.
I have literally poured out my entire life to the extent it doesn’t dox me.
So I do not buy this. Unless this is a place of completely untrustworthy scumbags entire (instead of mostly) there is
some party here who could act as a vouched for arbiter. If a "third" link in the chain is needed. So, find person X here, tell them what needs to be known (only to them, who is trusted by this community, so not me), and then that person can vouch "Yes/No Foler is x, y, or z." and you have revealed nothing about yourself except, this avatar. Because, you have ruined your avatar. This is how you fix it however.
To be more specific, Person X kind of has an escrow function. Or perhaps there is a better term. But their number 1 rule has to be,
they will not disclose the specific info you need to have settled here. Just that it exists.
I eventually have to do this pretty much every place I go, so it's no biggie. Some people have a companion animal. I have a companion eye-witness..