GrobbeeTrull2.0 said:
Let me preface this by saying, you are going to post whatever the fuck you want, and that what I am posting is just some advice for life in general.
Apparently we share two things in common, a first name, and our taste in women. The similarities end there though. For one, I think I have posted once or twice in this thread, mainly giving suggestions or comments to Eomer as at times, it seems he is really making an effort to find someone. Past that most of the other people that post here are either hopeless or just want to bang as many women as possible. Hey I have RL friends in the same situation, I dont give them advice on how they should run their romantic lives, because what worked for me, doesnt necessarily mean it will work for them.
In your case you seem to hand advice out frequently and often, but your personal life seems to be a mess at times, or is a mess, or was a mess. If I were you, and you were to step back from yourself and observe your actions, would you think you were the best person to say "hey respect women, I know I do, I impregnate married women early and often, that is a HUGE sign of respect". I am sure you are a cool guy IRL, I have had friends that have been in far worse situations, but at the same time I would never, EVER take one word from them and say, "you know that guy is a wise sage among boys". No, I would laugh and probably tell him to STFU, and remind him he needs to stop worrying about others, and figure his way out of his current situation.
No one here knows if you really are taking care of your boy, if you are really staying faithful to your current g/f (wife?) whatever she is currently, and honestly most of this board could probably give two shits, other than it would be more amusement for them to flame you with, if you are not. Personally I feel sorry for the kid, and how you brought him into this world, I feel sorry for the guy that you fucked over by impregnating the wife, and I dont know what kind of person it takes to fuck someones wife, get her pregnant, let that other family raise your kid, then white knight the wife and expect the husband to be completely sane and logical about the situation. IMO this guy has probably handled the situation better than 95% of the male population would. What you should be doing, is thanking your lucky stars this guy didnt have a mental breakdown and do something far worse than "cyber stalk" you.
As for me, I met my wife the old fashioned way, through work. She was a software instructor for a company I started with, with one her jobs, to train new employees on how the software works. She playd EQ, and loves Star Wars, she has a college degree. she made more money than me, she is a beautiful person inside and out, and not a psycho. Fast foward 9 years, we are getting ready to celebrate our 7 year anniversary, and have 1 1/2 year old son, working on another. My prior relationship was with a psycho, great sex, but totally fucked in the head, this marriage has been a vacation compared to that 2 year relationship. We get into fights, but we talk, that is the most important thing, we can still talk to each other like we are good friends.
I dont know the secret to finding the right woman (I have had a lot more bad ones, than goods ones, but all it takes is one good one), but as soon as I nail it down, I will be sure to post it here.
So, TLDR - Grobbee STFU
