Girls who broke your heart thread
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Dont ignore her. Just man up and dont take her abuse. Call her out, leave if it gets out of hand (best case: to another girl so she gets jealous) and dont play slave.
The no contact is for after you had everything you feel like saying to her and let it be known. So there is no built up animosity in you and you know you have said everything is on your mind. The no contact is the final nail in the coffin. You follow NC you will find out things are 100% easier to deal with.Inconsiderable said:
Edit: If you try to find another girl fast just to shove it in your ex"s face that means you aren"t over her. UNLESS she calls you while another girl is on top of you and you answer it like I did if you read my earlier post"s which is like a ultimate fuck you I got nothing to hide and I"m having fun RIGHT now on my time.
The only option is not talk to her anymore. You want her to change, but she is who she is.
You"re the male equivalent of the wife that gets weekly beatings from her husband but sticks around because she "sees the good in him."
It takes courage to make the choice that is clearly in your long term best interest but is more painful in the short term. Cowards stick with what they know even though it"s bad for them out of fear of being alone or for short term gain. Don"t be a coward.
You"re the male equivalent of the wife that gets weekly beatings from her husband but sticks around because she "sees the good in him."
It takes courage to make the choice that is clearly in your long term best interest but is more painful in the short term. Cowards stick with what they know even though it"s bad for them out of fear of being alone or for short term gain. Don"t be a coward.
So the ex and I have seen each other twice in the past week, both times ending with a little hoo-hah. It"s incredible how much more interesting someone becomes when you stop dating them. In the last week both of us have experienced this phenomena with one another, but neither of us wants to give the relationship another crack. So, for now, we"re stuck in an oddly pleasant limbo. I"m sure it won"t last, but I"m not ready to cut her out of my life yet (especially since she has become good friends with some of my peripheral female friends, thus becoming an independent member of my social circle.)
My problem is that I can"t go more than 3-6 months in a relationship without becoming apathetic to it. My life is slowly becoming that scene in Jerry Maguire where Jerry"s watching the tape with all his exs talking about how great he is at dating but how bad he is at relationships.
My problem is that I can"t go more than 3-6 months in a relationship without becoming apathetic to it. My life is slowly becoming that scene in Jerry Maguire where Jerry"s watching the tape with all his exs talking about how great he is at dating but how bad he is at relationships.
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Haha, thanks, no I"m one person. I find myself good at giving advice, and well I can give myself advice for the most part but sometimes little shit clouds my judgement and figured just needed someone to tell me it straight that wasnt my family/friends.Zehn - Vhex said:
Yeah I know, I do see the good in her and yeah part of me hopes she has changed in this last year but it"s not appearing that way and I guess I wouldnt blame her if I was her and had the ability to make guys do shit for me etc.. power of pussy, but have to grow up some day.
So I met this chick that I thought was older but turns out is 17 turning 18 in a month or so. I"m 23..
We"ve hung out two or three times and a few nights back we fucked. She"s got a 9 close 10 ass (pretty amazing), no tits, but overall a fantastic lay.
To summerize my dilemma: She"s a huge fan of pretty much soaking herself in make-up, wearing tinyasfuck shorts, and really short slutty shirts. Yet, I"m going to have to start taking this girl out in public. Should I man up for the sake of great sex and take her out, try to figure out a way to just be fuck partners, or straight up tell her to be a little more classier?
She has absolutely nothing to offer me at all with the exception of amazing sex, and there would be no real reason to go out with her or do anything period. However I know a point will come that she will want to.
We"ve hung out two or three times and a few nights back we fucked. She"s got a 9 close 10 ass (pretty amazing), no tits, but overall a fantastic lay.
To summerize my dilemma: She"s a huge fan of pretty much soaking herself in make-up, wearing tinyasfuck shorts, and really short slutty shirts. Yet, I"m going to have to start taking this girl out in public. Should I man up for the sake of great sex and take her out, try to figure out a way to just be fuck partners, or straight up tell her to be a little more classier?
She has absolutely nothing to offer me at all with the exception of amazing sex, and there would be no real reason to go out with her or do anything period. However I know a point will come that she will want to.
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Sing this to her.Citten said:
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That"s the thing. I"m not dating her. I"m fucking her. She"s going to want more soon though i"m guessing.Sutekh said:
The sex is too good so I found myself in an odd position.
That"s not even factual. The woman I got pregnant happened before I even dated my ex. But don"t let facts get in the way of you pretending to be cool, I"m sure all of the high fives you"re getting in PM will make up for your lack of parenting ability, the back child support you"re racking up, and the general lack of control of your life. Right?Brad2770 said:
I wonder how long of a whine you"ll post here when your son first calls the other guy "daddy" and then when your son wants to spend more time with him because they are a stable family unit, and then again when she finally gets the bright idea to go after you for support (hrm, I suppose I could always dig up her name, and remind her) and further fucks you.
You"ve been given ALL of the tools to fix your horribly fucked up life, and yet you refuse to use them. Why? Do you hate yourself and your son that much? My life may have been fucked up, and you can judge me all you want, but it"s straight now. Is yours? Didn"t think so.
So next time, before you open your mouth to take a shot at me, remember that you"re still doing worse than me on EVERY level. Well, except for the "Friends on FoH" level, but really, who are these guys and who gives a shit about them? Well, besides you.
Grats!Tarrant220 said:
Hopefully you"ll look forward to yours more than I"m looking forward to mine.
I"m so fucking sick of all the nitnoid bs and family drama that I have to deal with. I just want to be on the honeymoon.