She could have shut you down because she doesn"t want to be/look like a slut hooking up your first (?) hangout. I"d say she"s not interested, but sending you a pic of her body mega close up seems to suggest she is.
Do what ancient said. mmmshskmvkkssks advice is terrible, no offense. Guys decide, "I want to try with this girl." It"s kind of a binary decision. Girls operate WAY more on shades of gray. She might be only 50% there, and charm/conversation/magical booze will add the other 50%. If you state it outright, she"s gonna think you"re weird. "I don"t even know him that well, why is he so into me."
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For me, Korean Cupid has dried up big time. I haven"t met another girl since that mysterious brown fluid traumatized me. When I first got on there, I just logged on and sat there, and chicks would message me. Now I almost never get anything. When I search who"s online, I recognize over half the girls. I think they probably recognize me and move on to new guys. The site is too small to be long-term viable, I think.
I made a big mistake a few weeks ago of mass messaging like 20 girls. Well, after a few back & forths with maybe half of them, I got skype or msn info. The problem is, there was no real chatting, so I built no rapport with them. If I didn"t see them on skype or msn within a few days, we both forgot each other. Plus, it was so many, I couldn"t remember anything specific about anyone. I was playing the numbers game, but went overboard. But now we already recognize each other and kinda think "yea, talked to that one, next."
All in all, I met 5 in the first 2 months or so. On four of those dates, we slept together the first night. 2 were pretty hot, 1 was ehhhhh (plus brownie), and one made me feel like I had been raped afterward. In the end, it turns out empty sex is...empty. It was a lot of fun at times, depressing at times, and absolutely gross at time (1).
With my lack of success recently, I changed my profile one day as an experiment to the most arrogant and obnoxious thing ever. I wrote things like, "if we meet, we"ll probably sleep together. It"s not my goal, but it usually happens." Some girl from the states messaged me just angry that I had the nerve to write something like that. She just kept insulting me. I could tell she was SO angry about my profile. So I started fucking with her with the most outlandish stuff I could think of. It turned out pretty hilarious. I might post some truncated logs later.
In the end, like 2 hours later, she couldn"t resist me. All that trolling basically won her over. Haha. What"s that saying about it"s better to be hated by a girl than ignored?
Anyway I have a lot of free time lately, so I"ve been on there a bit. Again, just idling and waiting for messages while I do other stuff. I need to start messaging girls online, wait for a response, then open a chat. The biggest lesson I learned is that, without chatting via the site"s IM system, it"s so hard to build enough rapport for the girl to be comfortable meeting. And I"m SO garbage on the phone that I can"t make up with that.
