Girls who broke your heart thread
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I think finding a pair of disembodied tits in your mailbox would be disconcerting.Tenks said:
I didn"t immediately get monetarily invested, and she was saving to share the burden of costs of relocation. We didn"t make arrangements to live together until a year or so after we"d dated. I had planned to move there before I met her, but when we decided we wanted to be together for the long term, I actually made the financial commitment to make it easier for myself later on. The problem is that now that I"ve paid application fees and other career expenses, I don"t have the option of going anywhere else, at least not for a few years. And the application process takes half a year, so I don"t have the time or money to go somewhere else.Gaz said:
In other words, things are going according to my original plan, before I had a girlfriend, and I would have had to spend the $ regardless to move, as I"m not in the same location currently than where I"d planned to relocate. The crux of the matter is that I no longer have the option of making alternative arrangements elsewhere so we could stay together, even if I wanted to. Which I don"t. I can"t afford to cater to someone who can"t make up their goddamned mind and uses me as an emotional security blanket.
I do agree that spending as much money as I did to travel to see her and do things together when she traveled to see me was foolish, especially considering my already precarious financial situation.
It"s mainly just a kick in the balls to see your plans for a life with someone get fucked and know you could have spent the time doing the distance thing instead getting laid and not passing on opportunities to date. It was an investment that didn"t pay off, and more than anything I"m bitter that she couldn"t have told me earlier so I could have spent my time more wisely. I"m also bitter that she used the tired excuse of "changed circumstances" as a badly veiled attempt to break up. I would have appreciated her just telling me she wasn"t willing to compromise and that our relationship wouldn"t work, rather than the spin she put on it. IMO it"s a fucked up way of avoiding responsibility and telling the truth.
Lesson learned, can"t change the mistakes I made, just have to make the most of the time I"ve got from here on in, and not let a woman dictate fundamental life decisions.
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Do you have a sister? Invite them both over to watch a movie. Tell your sister not to act like a cunt and befriend this obvious skank. Serve them drinks, lots of drinks. Girls bond when the are plastered. When they start throwing up don"t help either of them. Let them hold each others hair back. At the end of the night they will clearly be the best of friends.Citten said:
Then your sister will have an in and you can get her to tag along on one of these late nighters.
Don"t have a sister? You know what apartment she lives in right? So you know what mail slot is hers. Send her a mail bomb.
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So what do you guys think is going on when you ask a girl out, she initially says yes, gives you her number, etc, then when you go to make concrete plans she flakes to the tune of "You just caught me by surprise is all", or something very similar.
I"m guessing plenty of initial attraction, but in between you asking her out and trying to make actual plans, talked herself out of it for one reason or another?
I"ve come across plenty of flaky girls over the years, but this particular excuse has always intrigued me.
I"m guessing plenty of initial attraction, but in between you asking her out and trying to make actual plans, talked herself out of it for one reason or another?
I"ve come across plenty of flaky girls over the years, but this particular excuse has always intrigued me.
There isn"t a definite answer but often times girls will give out their numbers to avoid an awkward situation. It is 1000x easier to just give a dude your number than to reject him.Mmmkeshek said:
This. I"ve given a guy a number (fake) to get him out of my hair when he was too drunk/stupid to realize I wasn"t particularly interested in his company. Also familiar with people giving out their real number because they"re under the impression the guy asking will never actually call.Tenks said:
Or, in your case, maybe the chick is now dating someone else. Sort"ve like a job application deal, she got accepted elsewhere and at the moment is not interested in other offers. Or whatever.
I think you should slip her some coin at the end of the night if she puts out. Just in case. You don"t want to look like an idiot.Citten said:
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I was with you till this point. A proper story would have ended with mixed feelings of pride and regret as he wakes up in the morning with apartment girl curled in his arms and his sister big spooning him from behind complete with reach around.Grumpus said:
Truth. No proper God-fearing woman would be out that late (and without a chaperone?!)Skan said:
