How can most Americans not be savvy enough to take the monthly savings and beat the $150k difference? I ran the numbers and it's 11.67 years to take the $1100/month and save the pure cash difference. Even if someone only saves half the mortgage difference that's 23.33 years and they broke even. I suppose what you're saying is we're too fucking lazy and stupid to save the money vs blowing it on bullshit - now that I can understand...
My 401k works the same. I'm a federal employee so it's called TSP but we can borrow against it and repay it at like a 1% interest rate that we pay back to ourselves - not to a bank. The downside is the money isn't "working for you" while it's loaned out to you. Say I had 200k in the TSP, borrow 100k and slowly repay it. Only the first 100k plus what I pay back are getting the market gains until I pay it all back. The 1% basically matches inflation is all. It's still better than a bank loan but long run it's not super great for your retirement.
Looks like I'm going to have to move out farther to get a decent house. Town houses in this area range from $480k to $572k. A 2000 sq ft 1950s built house on a half acre lot goes for $500k with ZERO fucking updated ANYTHING. That means super small rooms, super shitty kitchens and bathrooms and dogshit closets all of it just shit compared to anything modern. To get a stand alone house that's nice there's almost nothing between $600k and $800k where the transition switches between top of the line town houses with no fucking parking slammed together in the thousands of units next to each other, or a really nice stand alone house is $800k+ There are a few short of $800k but they aren't for sale.
I'm going to see what bumping my commute up another 20 to 30 minutes each way does. My understanding is once COVID ends that we're going to be looking at quite a bit more telework since everyone is saying we're still very productive. I hope that's true. We're at 40% telework now, 2 days at home each week before COVID (100% right now).
Long LONG term I'm hoping they realize I can do this job from anywhere so I can move back to the deep south.