Open to giving out big tech referrals to people who can keep forum life away from RL… Looking for real software engineers… Experience in distributed systems a plus. TC will most likely be 300k-600k depending on experience.
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You all realize that you can skip all these bullshit automated coding tests screeners that tech companies give out by getting on blind and asking for referrals, right?Amazon recruiter contacted me about a 300k job. Big tech is really going big on salaries in this environment. I agree to talk to them about it and they send me a package that includes like 2 hours of coding exercises and who knows how many (3-4?) hours of recommended prep work.
Fuck. Off.
You know who has time and desire to do that shit? Unemployed people.
Yeah my company is sniffing around on this for the fourth time in a year. I told them the day they hired me there was zero fucking way I was going to drive 90 minutes across town to sit in a shitty cube with an eye bleeder monitor while users come fuck with me all day. I was going to turn down the gig entirely, before they buckled. And since I hurt my back, I am even less interested in this bullshit. I don't need the stress, so I am actively looking. Good fucking luck finding someone who does what I do fully unsupervised, let alone at the modest pay rate I get. My manager better be really ready to do his fucking job again leading the team, because I am already set to pull the trigger if he pushes this shit again.It's looking like most offices here in Austin are all very gradually walking back everyone to being in the office fulltime. My wife's work was full remote until last summer. Then it was 2 days a week. In Q2 2023 it will be 3x a week.
Both of the places I am working are currently pushing for once a month/once a quarter in the office from now on.
My leadership has been pushing me to come back in 1 time a quarter.Yeah my company is sniffing around on this for the fourth time in a year. I told them the day they hired me there was zero fucking way I was going to drive 90 minutes across town to sit in a shitty cube with an eye bleeder monitor while users come fuck with me all day. I was going to turn down the gig entirely, before they buckled. And since I hurt my back, I am even less interested in this bullshit. I don't need the stress, so I am actively looking. Good fucking luck finding someone who does what I do fully unsupervised, let alone at the modest pay rate I get. My manager better be really ready to do his fucking job again leading the team, because I am already set to pull the trigger if he pushes this shit again.
And its entirely so he can feel like a big swinging dick when he comes into the office, not for any logistical reason. You want a physical presence at the office with you to gargle your balls, fine you have two year one techs and all the ass kissers you hired to keep stroking your ego who collectively get less done than I do. Leave me the fuck alone to do my job. Austin is doing it because its mostly Cali style millenial shitheels with no work ethic in the tech workforce there, who have to be watched like the children they are. Plus middle managers are getting really nervous and need RTO to obfuscate how worthless they are.
I had played this game of using recruiters I know he uses to send a message to him about this shit, but he won't fucking learn. Inertia and QoL are the only reasons I stay at this gig. I got five interview requests the day I changed my status on Linked In from white recruiters, not pajeets. Fuck it I will jump ship for more pay. Probably less work, too. Then my boss can explain how he ran out the 25+ year IT vet who was doing all the training, workflow, bridge calls, and mentoring because he wanted to see my fucking face daily to his CTO who is already pissed at his inability to keep the place staffed. I bet that convo will go well.
I don't believe that you have job homie.Lol fuck the office. I was hired remote. My team is spread from north west to north east. 0 offices in Florida. I’d leave before ever moving
I'm going to do the 1x a quarter thing at Job2 because I am milking two FTE positions and I do need to keep up appearances.My leadership has been pushing me to come back in 1 time a quarter.
Told them fuck no 3 times now.
When I was doing an architectural review of one of our cloud services coming back on pren to hit a brittle old API I caught a compromised aws account after being curious and digging through logs an alerts our fucking SOC and engineers ignored.
This shit would of caused a massive breach of 10s of millions of sensitive customer records.
Guess where all those humps work? It's not from home.
To busy playing office politics and going for coffee.
Yeah it’s called imposter syndrome. It’s what software engineers feel on the regular. Welcome to the party, pal.This thread isn't my field and I was going to post this question elsewhere, but I feel like this thread probably has people that have had similiar experiences.
In my specific field, I'm "the smart guy" (experienced) where I work now, which is a firm of ~300 people in 9 different disciplines. I don't feel particularly smart, but I'm OCD as fuck and have put a lot of time into a wide range of niche things. I'm the go-to for a handful of things. In the last 6 months, I've had 3 or 4 different companies feel me out about coming to work for them. 2 of them in particular are small start-ups with funding and growing customer base, both of which are staffed by people that blow me out of the water. (At the other two places, I'd probably be in the top 25% as far as experience goes). Working with/for people that are more experienced & smarter than me is exactly what I want. That's my #1 short-term career goal, largely because I'm mostly self-taught.
In these conversations, I worry that the people I'm talking to overvalue me and what I bring to the table. Is there a name for this? Not "the worry", specifically, but the reality of that situation.
I think about some of the support people ask me for where I'm at now and about half of it is completely outside my expertise, but I can help solve the problem if they put it into a format I can apply (like telling a geologist to give me parameters I can turn into a formula, not a narrative about the history of rocks). If I were at some of these other places, I'd have someone with the right expertise to send those requests too.
tl;dr - Re-reading, this ended up sounding like I'm asking for emotional support for job offer anxiety or something. Really, I just think "Will I be as valuable there as I am here?" is a common experience when receiving job offers and I was hoping that it had a name I could look up. Read up on some advice to assess that possibility, etc. I don't have any hangups about being the dumbest guy in the room because I want to learn anyways, so that doesn't really bug me. I just don't know what my value is to those places and I assume this is a common thought in a lot of fields.
Imposter syndrome?In these conversations, I worry that the people I'm talking to overvalue me and what I bring to the table. Is there a name for this? Not "the worry", specifically, but the reality of that situation.
The important lesson of imposter syndrome is that imposters can be quite successful.
It's a good question, and that should probably be one of the main things you should be chatting with the potential employers about."Will I be as valuable there as I am here?"
Sorry to chop everything up, but what % of the population do you think can honestly say these things? How many people actively seek out and learn new things? How many can actually solve problems outside of a tiny circle of knowledge? How many people can put their ego and insecurities aside and actively seek an environment where they're the dumbest person in the room and need to really strive to grow?In my specific field, I'm "the smart guy" (experienced) where I work now, which is a firm of ~300 people in 9 different disciplines. I don't feel particularly smart, but I'm OCD as fuck and have put a lot of time into a wide range of niche things. I'm the go-to for a handful of things.
Working with/for people that are more experienced & smarter than me is exactly what I want.
I think about some of the support people ask me for where I'm at now and about half of it is completely outside my expertise, but I can help solve the problem if they put it into a format I can apply