Just as a heads-up to people who don't know. Salespeople only get paid when they sell a car. On top of that, they only get paid off of the PROFIT of selling said car. Think about your paycheck and what you do for it. Now realize the people that you talk to are also thinking about their paycheck. It isn't personal.
All that said, go to the manufacturers website, submit a lead online. Only use your real email address (a burner at that). Email everyone back saying you want to lease a vehicle with all your terms (months, miles, accessories/options). Let them know how much TOTAL money you are going to put down (should be just first payment or $1000 if you want to do that much). Tell them you are going to buy in the next 48 hours at the dealer that gives the best up front all included (taxes/tags/fees etc) payment. When you go to the lowest dealer, if everything is as they quoted you, buy it. If not, go to the next dealer.
Don't beat them up too much more than that and make a purchase. If you aren't interested in buying, don't waste everyone's (including your) time. EZ PZ.
Everyone who has problems buying cars has a problem doing it because of themselves. Buying a car isn't fucking rocket science.