Phazael
Confirmed Beta Shitlord, Fat Bastard
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Khaine's world outlook is fine, its just not of any value to anyone who is realistically trying to maintain a long term relationship. He takes offense when this is pointed out, but his self admitted track record in relationships more or less confirms this.
As far as Titan's situation, without knowing other details and just laying out a wild guess, there are three options in my opinion:
1) Go Alpha- She is acting like a spoiled kid in your discussions, so treat her like one. Walk the fuck out and say you will return when she decides to start acting like an adult. Assert your position as man of the house. Best case scenario, she reacts to that and calms the fuck down, though you might lose respect for her. Worst case, she turns the crazy up to 11 in which case you know what you are dealing with and that it cannot be fixed.
2) Counselling- Given the disputes you ae having, I doubt this will work but its the most sane choice. I really think she likely has a circle of harpy like "womyn" friends pissing in her ear and counseling is not going to stop them from tainting her views. I think if you go this route, try to get a female marriage counsellor as I think if she is drinking the hyper liberal kool aid you have a better chance of breaking through to her that way.
3) Walk away- If she really believes you are a racist and will not even discuss things, it is probably time to pull the rip cord. Only reason to consider doing so without exhausting other options would be if my suspicion of being fueled by other female friends is accurate. The sooner you move on, the less time there is for her to ramp the psycho up and do something really damaging to both your lives if you do move on. If her dysfunction is really as bad as you describe it, then you probably stopped really being a couple the moment she put her ideology/religion above you in value. It is almost impossible to fix that kind of crazy.
Best of luck, either way. People change and not always for the better. I don't envy the shit you have to endure.
As far as Titan's situation, without knowing other details and just laying out a wild guess, there are three options in my opinion:
1) Go Alpha- She is acting like a spoiled kid in your discussions, so treat her like one. Walk the fuck out and say you will return when she decides to start acting like an adult. Assert your position as man of the house. Best case scenario, she reacts to that and calms the fuck down, though you might lose respect for her. Worst case, she turns the crazy up to 11 in which case you know what you are dealing with and that it cannot be fixed.
2) Counselling- Given the disputes you ae having, I doubt this will work but its the most sane choice. I really think she likely has a circle of harpy like "womyn" friends pissing in her ear and counseling is not going to stop them from tainting her views. I think if you go this route, try to get a female marriage counsellor as I think if she is drinking the hyper liberal kool aid you have a better chance of breaking through to her that way.
3) Walk away- If she really believes you are a racist and will not even discuss things, it is probably time to pull the rip cord. Only reason to consider doing so without exhausting other options would be if my suspicion of being fueled by other female friends is accurate. The sooner you move on, the less time there is for her to ramp the psycho up and do something really damaging to both your lives if you do move on. If her dysfunction is really as bad as you describe it, then you probably stopped really being a couple the moment she put her ideology/religion above you in value. It is almost impossible to fix that kind of crazy.
Best of luck, either way. People change and not always for the better. I don't envy the shit you have to endure.
