Khane
Got something right about marriage
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Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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Guest, it's time once again for the massively important and exciting FoH Asshat Tournament!
Go here and give us your nominations!Who's been the biggest Asshat in the last year? Give us your worst ones!
Soygen
The Dirty Dozen For the Price of One
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Because a large portion of our community are not respectable human beings. It's what makes us...us.
Phazael
Confirmed Beta Shitlord, Fat Bastard
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She drew fire because she basically took offense to men being men, while being ignorant of directly benefitting from the behavior she was complaining about.
But yeah, as useless as she is, having the perspective of a princess baby factory is actually ultimately good for the thread in the same way Khane is.
But yeah, as useless as she is, having the perspective of a princess baby factory is actually ultimately good for the thread in the same way Khane is.
Phazael
Confirmed Beta Shitlord, Fat Bastard
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Nester was right. We are getting a little harsh for this thread.
And just because I don't agree with your opinion does not mean I don't respect you or the manner in which you argue it. That's the area that Trex needs to work on. She is kind of the other far side of the coin here, but she lacks your articulate style.
And just because I don't agree with your opinion does not mean I don't respect you or the manner in which you argue it. That's the area that Trex needs to work on. She is kind of the other far side of the coin here, but she lacks your articulate style.
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Mrs. Gravy
Quite Saucy
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Feeling: melancholy and inquisitive.
To the FoH masses: What is your longest lasting successful relationship? What do you think made it successful...are you still in it? If not...why did it end? Do you miss it?
To the FoH masses: What is your longest lasting successful relationship? What do you think made it successful...are you still in it? If not...why did it end? Do you miss it?
Cad
scientia potentia est
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24 years this year. Still in it. I would love to point to X Y or Z that makes it successful but I'd be pontificating because I've never been in another relationship like it; so I can't say for sure. But we get along, we communicate well, and we love each other.
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Blazin
Creative Title
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21 years. Still in it. I enjoy her company over anyone else, communication,, shared interests, similar demeanor, regular sex.
Seems like just about every couple we know is divorced, been with wife since I was a kid so not enough experience outside this relationship to speak to why people have such a hard time of it. You were with Gravy a few decades no? I'm not sure if it's a personality thing that results in LT relationships, dumb luck or what.
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Phazael
Confirmed Beta Shitlord, Fat Bastard
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Known the wife since Kunark (lol), been dating for 14 years, and married for 12. Its my Bday weekend and her one text to me is "don't let the hoochies at the bar get you too drunk to drive". We have all the same hobbies and interests and would be best friends if not married. I am a lucky bastard. We live fat bastard lifestyles, so who knows how long before one of us keels over, but every year has been a quality one. I could die tomorrow content, honestly.
Most of our friends in LT relationships have crashed and burned if from Cali or stuck it out if from the Midwest. Must be a personality and regional thing. As a german, I take the whole til death do you part thing very seriously. Get in the right circle of people if you want to get back on the horse, or ride the train of dicks and enjoy yourself. Its really your call and I know G wanted you to have a life after him. You won't ever have what you had again, but you might end up with something different that is about as good. There is no point in nailing yourself to the cross in mourning, because no one would want that for you, Gravy least of all.
Most of our friends in LT relationships have crashed and burned if from Cali or stuck it out if from the Midwest. Must be a personality and regional thing. As a german, I take the whole til death do you part thing very seriously. Get in the right circle of people if you want to get back on the horse, or ride the train of dicks and enjoy yourself. Its really your call and I know G wanted you to have a life after him. You won't ever have what you had again, but you might end up with something different that is about as good. There is no point in nailing yourself to the cross in mourning, because no one would want that for you, Gravy least of all.
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Aldarion
Egg Nazi
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11 years in, 7 years married here. Cant hold a candle to the 20+s that have already posted but this phrase struck home for me.
I'm convinced this is one factor. I know a lot of serially divorced people who have openly said they stay married til it doesnt "feel right" anymore, as if feelings were a real thing rather than something under our control. My wife and I will not get divorced, its not an option on the table. Knowing that, and knowing that if something goes wrong we have to fix it because this is permanent, is a good thing in my view and something thats not universal among relationships or even among marriages.
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Namon
Blackwing Lair Raider
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Just over 11 years together, so really, compared to you, Mrs. Gravy, I'm still a relationship pup, but what worked for us is our opposing qualities. We don't have a ton in common outside of values, but I'm laid back and non confrontational, and she is take charge and very outgoing. We just compliment each other very well as a team, and we can tell each other anything. Oh and the sex is awesome too, I make her toes curl and she does mine.
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Cad
scientia potentia est
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Izo
Tranny Chaser
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18th and cuntpuzzled
Grats on your freedom. Story time?
https://www.firesofheaven.org/threads/the-girls-who-broke-your-heart-thread.401/page-317
Haast
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