Good to see you are no longer sporting the horns.If you want to get the taste of that Tyen thread out of your mouth....
Look what I did.
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Good to see you are no longer sporting the horns.
So whats the consensus on the best dating website/app? From my experience;
Tinder - Unless you look like an underwear model, an utter dumpster fire. 50% of the profiles are either fake/scammers or just thots advertising their ig/sc(for what reason who knows), and 75% of the rest are either single mothers with 3 kids or retards with snakes or some other equally retarded design tattooed across their tits. Picking the 10-15% worthwhile out of the 90% trash is basically like picking a needle out of a haystack, a gated haystack.
Coffee Meets Bagel - Significantly better selection compared to Tinder but it is monumentally gated to the point of uselessness. Im only getting shown 4-5 profiles a day and if the woman is remotely attractive, it tells you it will be 7+ days before they see yours. What the fuck is the point?
Bumble - cuck garbage, havent used it as they dont like it if you hold firearms in profile pics.
Hinge - does anybody even use it? Ive had 1 match and the woman never responded.
Okcupid - Seems the best overall, but still have to weed out the single mothers(using filters is completely pointless as half of the people dont select kids or no kids in their profile) and retards with cats tattooed on their tits. They are also trying to turn it into Tinder for whatever god awful reason. Their search algorithm is very fucky.
Plenty of Fish - Havent used in forever, but did have success back in the day with it. From what Ive heard though its turned into an even worse dumpster fire with refugees from CL flooding it.
These are my observations as an average looking guy with an average looking income. What have you single bros been using and found works the best?
Good to see you are no longer sporting the horns.
Is that a real turtle or like a statue or something?If you want to get the taste of that Tyen thread out of your mouth....
Look what I did.
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We even brought my ex-wife along, because we all get along really well and really have an awesome relationship.
Age 36
Currently working for the city of Long Beach
The last date I set up was through Plenty of Fish. I'm into anime and cosplay; I go to cons and that's typically where I try to find women with similar interests to ask out in person. Otherwise, I try to use online dating options.
But it really doesnt seem to matter who I ask out:
Doesn't seem to matter if it's women with no similar interests or women with identical interests, political and religious beliefs.
Women who are 9s or 10s or women who are 5s and 6s
I've asked out women who have dated men with lots of money and status but then have dated guys who didnt work and still lived at home.
I've had women tell me that, when I was working for Uber, that wasn't a real job but then had the hots for my friend who was a stoner who didn't even have a part time job.
I've known a couple of women who will date guys that have no jobs and that they support, and that those guys are horribly verbally abusive towards them.
I'm honestly feeling like I'm being judged with a separate set of criteria from other men.
Do you think that some of what your feeling has started seeping its way into how you are talking/acting around these girls? Someone said it either in this thread or another one, but desperation is something that women can smell a mile away. When I was going through a drought or one of my friends is I have the same advice: Focus on being satisfied with who you are first, get yourself in order and start doing things that make you think that you are worth the date. Work out, eat right, go out and enjoy cons without worrying about the girl aspect. I have now added a recommendation to read
12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos by Jordan Peterson because it talks directly to how you make yourself desirable to YOU and that leads to others finding you attractive.
Just remember that this is a phase and it will get better.
And for the record, one of the last women that rejected me did so because she felt I didn't show enough interest in her when I first met her, even though I asked her out about 3 days later.
1) You didn't invade her privacy. You invaded her irresponsibility. That's why it's such a big deal. You "made" her feel like she sucks, which she does.
2) Apologize for what? You need to placate as little as possible when you're just dating.
3) Forget about her, delete her.
4) If a woman wants to be with you, she will figure out a way to make that happen.
5) This is a sign you need to create some space between yourself and this relationship.
6) There's a difference between "doing something wrong" and "doing something someone turned out to not like."
7) Ever hear that you want what you can't have?
8) Advice for you: Approach relationships from the start with an understanding that you can't control the outcome, and that they can be gone from your life in an instant and you will be okay if that happens. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself even if it means they choose to not continue.
Sure but have you actually tried following itGod I'm so fucking tired of hearing this kind of advice