You can't address insatiable addiction with logic. It doesn't work that way. It will remain insatiable. The pool isn't enough. The money isn't enough. A good wife isn't enough. A dream home and dogs isn't enough. Literally nothing is enough except the compulsion towards obsessive thoughts. But that's only enough for a day or a week, before the endorphins fade away and you're left needing (not necessarily wanting) more.
Obsessive compulsive disorders aren't just flicking lights on and off 100 times a day. They can quantify addictions too. Obsessing/fantasizing about other women 24/7 and compulsively acting out on those fantisies by buying women, which is probably the most destructive/harmful thing a husband can do to his wife, is an easy example of obsessive compulsive disorder.
The problem is that this sort of behavior doesn't stop with, "Hey, just spend more time by the pool." It's a mental state that has to first want to change and then find the help it needs to change, and then be committed to changing.
