I'll attempt to change the subject. I'm getting bored of sex and I don't know why. I don't hate it or anything extreme just finding that my libido seems much lower, even had my testosterone tested and it was normal. I'm finding that I'm doing little things to avoid having sex. I know what is normal for every relationship and person varies. I have been 3-4 times a week for about 20 years and finding that 1-2 times a week now seems fine to me. My problem is that my wife is not experiencing the same change and seems to get frustrated with me breaking from routine. Told her to fly solo the other night and she got pissy. I could be home alone all day and no urge to look at porn or jerk off. It may be an inevitable part of getting older but I'm only 37 so outside of cinnamilk does anyone have a non hokey way of raising libido?
The now single guys in this thread, even if they are players, may not get sex as regularly as in a LT relationship so saying 1-2 times a week I would think is probably normal for single guys, it is only frustrating from the perspective of the decline for me not that I'm saying 1-2 times a week is bad or means I'm having or wanting sex just causing stress in the relationship by changing long established behaviors.