Marriage and the Power of Divorce

It's a completely reasonable conclusion to draw based on someone's own past experiences. Eomer said it was initially just a fling while she figured out her next steps in life. She thought she'd be moving and her plans fell through so she stayed. Now that she's about to finish school she may be re-evaluating what possibly could have just been a relationship of convenience for her all along.

Amod, let's institute a new rule. We have to open every post with the line "Based on the information I have" so we don't offend the delicate sensibilities of DickTrickle.

Based on the information I have, new rule accepted.

My ex used to flip shit a lot about what she perceived as a lack of respect. I thought she was crazy at the time (and she is in my opinion a selfish bitch with a hair trigger temper), but I've realized she wasn't wrong.

I DID have expectations for her, she routinely failed them, I routinely expressed disappointment in said failures and she could tell over time that it negatively affected my opinion of her (which I didn't realize at the time). It slowly devolved into me being more of a supervisor than partner. Her counter to this was to go over-the-top ballistic over every perceived slight by the end. It wasn't healthy.

All of this is a lot more clear in retrospect; it isn't easy to tell when you are living it. But after she routinely failed expectations, I lost faith in her ability to function as an adult. Which means the relationship should have ended years before it did. Oh well, hindsight is a bitch.

^Fair enough, but none of that really applies to my situation. I respect the hell out of her, at least internally. But maybe I don't do a good job of showing that.

Noodlemod_sl said:

And nudes. You forgot the nudes.

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She won't let me take any

Khane_sl said:

Now that she's about to finish school she may be re-evaluating what possibly could have just been a relationship of convenience for her all along.

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I never said she is about to finish school. She's not done until May 2017, I believe. She's only about half way through the 3 year program. That's one of the reasons why I don't think she's all that eager to get hitched. Or at least assuming that.

Make an argument out of it..

We can all win, even you and her.

Women shouldn't be going to school anyway.

Perhaps nudes should be one of the newly required expectations

Has anyone considered running it into the ground?

Picasso_sl said:

Has anyone considered running it into the ground?

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TITS OR GTFO

Eomer_sl said:

^Fair enough, but none of that really applies to my situation. I respect the hell out of her, at least internally. But maybe I don't do a good job of showing that.

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You are right. I was just getting it off my chest since it was related to the topic of the day.

Just be sure to get a prenup if you choose the marriage route. This type of insecurity has a high probability of resurfacing down the road even if she gets over it now.

I imagine the company is allowed to declare him incompetent and murder him if he doesn't sign a prenup.

Moonarchia_sl said:

Just be sure to get a prenup if you choose the marriage route. There's no good reason not to. Ever.

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Agreed

Well come on bro post vids of you fucking your wife!

My wife got dolled up for that wedding we went to and looked 11/10, almost posted pics here but for some reason snapped back to reality