Tossing in my thoughts:
1. I knew what SMH, and throwing shade was, but I had to seek the definition of redpill. I am apparently not well-educated in "current" slang.
2. Perhaps the women who insisted on condoms for oral had an STI and didn't want to spread it, or they didn't want to get one...many don't have glaring symptoms but can cause damage.
3. TMI- I never thought about a condom for oral and ...here's the TMI...it's a fave act...swallow not spit.....but I will in the future if it were ever to be a possibility for me.