None of this data is really interesting. What is interesting is your long term intent and how you are working toward it. Maybe the redpillis helping you, Antarius. I think that most people here are concerned because their long term intent is like mine so your approach is probably fucking your head up and your prospects for achieving long term goals.
I will start: my long term intent was and is to find someone that I am happy to spend 20-30 years raising a family with, live on a large house in a rural area, continue to work in high-tech, have a pile of kids (first done, second is current "project"), and enjoy hobbies alone/together. The redpillstrategy wouldn't have helped me with that. When I was intent on exploring, experimenting, and enjoying short term relationships, i slept around a fair amount from 16 through 24. I didn't have a low opinion of woman. i didn't think of them as subhuman. I just was out for a laugh and knew that girls my age were too. I grew out of that and wanted something more lasting.
If you end up wanting something like what I have, the redpillideas may help you with the initial attraction but they are going to really fuck you up for having anything longer term with a non-emotionally-damaged, educated, nice girl that you would want to end up devoting 20-30 years of your life to raising a family with. I think this is what most people take issue with, not the idea that you work out and act more confident to figure out the initial attraction. Hey, I am sorry that you didn't figure that out as a teen. I got lucky because I was gregarious, travelled globally, played sports, and was pretty fearless so that came easy to me early on. Sucks that it didn't for you, too.