I'm not sure why you're giving a_skeleton_03 shit for marrying a virgin (I'm assuming neither he not his wife is lying) it's been well established that each sexual partner for a woman increases her chance of unhappiness in marriage and chance of initiating divorce. I'm on my phone so I can't pull up the exact data, but a virgin bride is only 10% as likely to imitate a divorce as a woman who had had 15 partners as far as I can remember from the chart. Basically, it's pretty damning of your chances of marriage if you pick up a woman in her early 30s, post wall, especially after she's ridden the cock carousel.
The reason red pill advises against being a blue pill provider to a woman looking to settle down in her 30s is because the odds of divorce among that particular demographic is ridiculous, something like 80% if a woman marries 29-33 if she has a kid prior, not to mention, the unfavorable divorce laws, dead bedroom scenarios, percent chance of cheating increases, 40% of women married post 30 will cheat on their husbands (And those are just the ones that get caught), it's just not a good idea. Some mitigating factors include higher education and whatnot,, but I don't see too many people on this board dating doctors.
By FAR, the single greatest correlative indicator of a happy marriage is how many men the woman has fucked prior to the marriage, and higher is not better. Granted you my say correlation is not causation, but why would you want to risk it. How desperate are YOU, I already know how desperate the woman is. Red pill advises against settling for a woman in that age bracket is because she is likely using you despite not being very sexually attracted to you. She is literally deluding herself into thinking she can make it work because she is unhappy that she has been unable to make an alpha commit, so she starts looking for men she is NOT sexually aroused by.
I was actually listening to loveline a few years ago and I remember dr drew specifically telling a woman to do EXACTLY Start dating men that don't arouse her as much because she had been in 3 seperate abusive relationships. I pity the poor man she tried to latch on to that didn't realize that she actually was turned on by an abusive asshole, and a tv personality told her to date him next, because he DIDNT excite her.
You all rail against me for paying for prostitutes in the past, but a woman looking for a blue pill beta provider is the worst kind of prostitute.