Wanted to respond to this before the thread got Misted up.What leads you to believe the intensity of gravity would have any effect on the speed in which it propagates?
I was more making the point that we already have examples (potential examples, no one actually knows what goes on after the event horizon) of acceleration in excess of C, so the idea of velocity being limited to the limits of relativity is already up for debate. Based on my very limited human knowledge of gravity, my best guess at present is that it is some sort of all pervading force that connects all matter in the universe. As stated up previously, any simulated model of the solar system where there is anything less than instant transmission of gravitic force results in shit flying apart. Since we are here, we are reasonably certain that this has not occurred. Ergo, my best (poorly) educated guess is that gravity is instant and omnipresent.